OK theres this girl at my high school right I really like her and she knows that but shes waiting for me to make a move
but everytime I am around her I get all quiet and shy and cant find the words to say.I really like this girl and would really like to have her as my girlfriend.somebody please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-25 17:03:04 · 13 answers · asked by pimpin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yo welcome to my world. Forget bout shyness. heres what to do. say hi to her everyday like really loud and smile at her after. wave at her when u c her in the hallway. Make fun of someone else to make her laugh. then make fun of the teacher. look at her always when u have class. dont make it look like ur staring though. Since shes letting u make the move, get one of ur freinds to say something like u 2 should go out together. then u should say may b we should. then say something u wanna see a movie friday. see if she says yes or no.. Good luck bro. pe@ce
2006-11-25 17:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by magicalrune 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to see her as a person with needs just like yourself, only female. She is not going away from you because she knows you are interested so you must keep things social and open between you for your relationship to grow. Find something you both like or could do together, socially and draw her into it. Do you know any of the same people? Go to the same events, dining places, schools, churches, shopping malls, Listen to the same music, like sports, poetry, amusement parks,
or animals? You must communicate with her and forget about the physical feelings for now. That is what is getting in your way! You CAN talk to her. Find out what she likes and make her smile. She is only human and if she says no (and she won't), you can always try it again, later. Best wishes.
2006-11-26 01:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she's waiting for you to make the move, then she is not going to reject you so you reassure yourself of that when you start to get nervous. Don't focus too much on making a move, try to just make her laugh, or compliment her on the way she smells or what she's wearing something small to start, then take it to the next level. Is there a party coming up that she could be your date to? Do you know of a certain place that she might find interesting? Is there a movie that she has mentioned liking or wanting to see? Try to use your knowledge of her to make your move, sometimes the answers to our questions are right under our noses we just have to use them! Good luck. :)
2006-11-26 01:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by cheesussinclair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should make the move then i did with my boyfriend. it isn't as hard as it seems. just go up to her and ask her cuz if really know for sure that she likes you then there should be no problem. and i couldn't even talk around the guy I'm going out with now i had too many butterflies but if you just do it and get it over with you'll feel so much better. but if you wait too long it might e too late. so hurry up!!
2006-11-26 01:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT email or write her or get a friend to ask her out.......approach her dude, she'll appreciate this so much later on and she'll see you're a real man....show her you got a set of cahones....just ask her to something simple at first like a movie......be casual about it...."hey I was wondering if you'd like to catch a movie and dinner or something this weekend." You don't have to dive straight in and wrap yourself in a relationship......take baby steps my man. If you have a good time at the movies then take it further and ask her out again to a more exciting date. Then start spending time with her and establishing a relationship.
2006-11-26 01:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bill B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this may happpen a lot if u kno wat kind of girl she is get ur words from that. Say sumthing funny or ask if she did good on a test if she talks then that probaly means shes interested or compliment her then walk away make it seem lik ur not tryin 2 hit on her! o hope it helps if not dont spend ur life thinkin about her move on im sure theres sum 1 who liks u and u haven't realized it!
2006-11-26 01:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by Brandi F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell 1 of your friends 2 tell the girl u want 2 go out with her
2006-11-26 01:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by hot girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello im kay well first thing first id get her alone in tell her how you feel in every way or write your feelings in a romantic poem in give it to her do some romantic stuff like take thimgs slow in easy when you talk to her
2006-11-26 01:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by jacarla fox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to write her a letter. Maybe e-mail her. Or maybe you can take her atv riding or walking or somethin to get ta kno her some more.
2006-11-26 01:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by FreshmanFranchize06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude.. forget shyness.. go have a cup of coffee that morning so you'll be hyper and ask her out already.
2006-11-26 01:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by coolchess123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋