How many ppl here have had a affair on line and what happen ? was it real love ?
2006-11-25 17:10:12 · 23 answers · asked by Savannah P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I never have but I wouldn't expect too much out of a online affair. You really don't know anything about the person. Everything could be a lie.
2006-11-25 17:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone met a girl, started loving her. Didn't tell her, now he is miles away from her. Hoping to meet her online. But she isn't responding. Is this a affair. When U cant do anything by meeting that person. Then what can happen when you meet online. This online affair idea sucks.
2006-11-28 13:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by desi_gyaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have, and am still having it. I have met the person and we have been seeing each other for over 6 years. Neither one of us feels good about it, but we are in love. I think we both knew it the day we met online. It sucks that it's an affair. But it is love, otherwise it wouldn't have lasted like it has.
2006-11-25 18:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by confused13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know there are always exception to the rule. On line you can find real friends. And what is the web cam doing? See for yourself how he/she looks like (by the way, appearances are misleading. character is the best) Intuition and sensitiveness and a lot of instinct will tell you whether a person is speaking the truth or not. I found two genuine friends on line and they prove to be wonderful persons and great professionals. Perhaps I was just lucky!!
2006-11-25 17:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't really classify online dating as having an affair because
a) you don't really know the person
b) it cant go anywhere
c) they rarely work out
d) you can also get a new email, stop using that site, or anything and all of a sudden you've vanished!
e) They can lie about themselves
Nothing really happened it was weird and lasted 3 days... o.0
2006-11-25 17:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"How and why do usually smart women get sucked into these situations?" Because they're not smart, that's why. In fact, I would say its the opposite, that they're dumb. It isn't possible for someone to get sucked into anything. There is being forced, as in having a gun to your head or being black mailed, and then there is having a choice. It is a choice to deal with anyone, whether married or not. If a woman chooses to get into a relationship with a married man, and she knows he married, she should expect to get stood up and treated as second class because that's more than likely how she's viewed. Convincing someone that something may be good or in their best interest, is not an example of sucking that person in. It is an example of someone's naivety being pulled or preference being appealed to.
2016-05-23 03:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met someone on-line and she is now my wife, but I didn't have an affair on line. I had also dated a couple of others I met on line and found it to be a very good venue for that.
2006-11-25 17:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am:
I cannot say if it is love but I feel truly connected and I have never felt this way with anyone.I know we shall never meet and i am presently in a sour relationship so this unreal love life is an escape for me.
I know we can never meet but I donot have the guts to have a real affair and ease my pain.Pain of betrayal from my present partner so I choose an online one coz I know we shall never meet.
whatever the outcome its us that chooses it!
Goddluck
Love SANAM
2006-11-25 17:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know only one and only one and they got married.
She did lots of foot work and also spend some money to hire a detective to get more info.
Then visited the place and then had long distance relationship an got married.
You have to be careful, they also had prenuptial agreement.
In situation, like on line the eyes are always open and love usually grows only by caring for each other, and respect for each other........................................
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2006-11-26 03:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to sanam above - is your relationship perhaps sour because you spend your energy and time on your "online" relationship?
Is it fair to your current partner to be having an "online affair" ?
Personally, never have, never will. I just picture that cartoon where they show the 400lb fat man sitting in his underwear in front of the computer typing out a messaage about how he is a 21yr old hottie.
2006-11-25 17:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Rachael's Dad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋