Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

i'm a guy and i'd much rathe go shopping or get together with my friends and chat over coffee. or i luv watching dawson's creek. football is stupid. a bunch of guys running up and down the field and knocking each other down. and the rules i have no idea all the rules and what they're doing. seems like pretty dumb.

2006-11-25 17:53:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-25 17:51:57 · 11 answers · asked by jatin s 1 in Friends

Im not saying do you always look for marriage but if u know that you two could never be really long term do you even bother?

2006-11-25 17:50:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I read my boyfriends email one time and he said "thank you ,you really broke the bank for me"I dont understand what that meant. I never told him I read his email.

2006-11-25 17:50:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what type of things/styles/attributes/traits/features...etc attract white women to black men?

2006-11-25 17:50:00 · 1 answers · asked by MrMeT00 2 in Singles & Dating

would you go on a diet, exercise everyday, keep your body in shape.go to the salon everysingle day to get your hair done, will you buy a beautiful dress so that men would stop and look at you, would you rather be intelligent and not that hot, or would you rather be sexy and shallow like many blonde women, would you want .your guy to be talking to you about life or would you rather
be doing sex as a woman? would you like to be loved for who you are as an individual or become loved and adored by men because you are sexy ,forget the personality

2006-11-25 17:49:16 · 4 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

If i dont let him even smooching..will he respect me more?
Because i dont want him to do evrything before marriage..
Is it good..I will let him do verything once we are married.

will he respect n love me more if i dont him do or wht?

Guys plzz ans

2006-11-25 17:49:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

No one has custody and I can't caIl the police because she the mom. I am the father. I have raised my daughter for the last five yrs. the mother asked to take her out to eat and I agreed and the mother failed to return her. I recieved a call from the mothers lawyer saying I need to be in court this thursday. could the mother take her away from me if she can prove she has a stable home? I have lots of past things against her but nothing current. she has nothing against me. I have been providing a stable home for her these last years. My daughter would perfer to live with her mother if possible. My daughter is 12 years old now. The mother lives 3 hrs. from me and the court date is there. I haven't been served with court papers yet though because of the holiday. What are the chances of me requesting to have my daughter returned to me where she can continue in school and transfer the custody case here where I live( where the child's home has been up until a week ago)until a final desicion

2006-11-25 17:49:10 · 9 answers · asked by candace L 1 in Family

We're ok friends, we talk online daily, say hi in the halls nad I've burned him a CD. Last week we kind of hung out after school because him and his friend wanted to use the school dance studio after school to practice breaking and i got the key for them because I'm on the dance team and he asked me to stay. So we chatteda lot he showed off his tricks and tried to teach me some, and showed off some of mine, hahah it was pretty fun. But the day before he was like "Ok so after school call me or something -gives number-" My friends think that means he likes me because "he wouldn't have given me his # if he didn't" but it was in a casual way though! What do you think?

2006-11-25 17:47:56 · 12 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Singles & Dating

He and I have been dating a year - and I couldn't be more crazy about him. I still get a little rush when I'm driving over to his house. He isn't the most touchy-feely guy, but it seems that he's less eager to, say, hold my hand in public (nothing PDA, of course!); kiss me hello/goodbye, etc. than when we began dating.

Tonight we went to dinner and a movie and when we got back to his house I went to hug him and started to kiss him on his neck and he did reciprocate - just stood there. I got annoyed (in my head) so I gathered my things and politely made my exit. I might be thinking in an overly sensitive fashion - but though I'd throw this one out to the guys...

It's tough to really outline the situation in a short space so I'll just say this:
After dating a woman for a while do stop doing the things you did at the beginning (hand holding, caressing) because you think "she's hooked, now I can relax" or because you become less interested.

2006-11-25 17:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by G_Elisabeth 5 in Singles & Dating

I mean, you must be going through quite the dry spell sitting home on a saturday night, no?
Just ask, I'm here to help you.

2006-11-25 17:46:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u watch Hannah Motanna
is she,in reality a rock star/singer ???

2006-11-25 17:46:51 · 14 answers · asked by yonel 1 in Friends

If a guy wants you to meet his buddies is that a sign that he likes you or is wanting to get their stamp of approval for you?

2006-11-25 17:45:51 · 12 answers · asked by Hopeful girl 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother passed away last year and he admited that he is depressed lately because of the holidays. I told him how I deal with it, [I avoid all of it]. When he see's other people with families it reminds him of his loss. Most middle ages single people know how to deal with it but he is near 80. He won't exercise at all and he drifts back into these old stories over and over again. I always try to be nice and I am staying with him for a reason. I wish I could get him to stop drinking alcohol but it is too late. I am a non-drinker so I can't preach and I have the feeling that very soon I will be writing about his death. It is hard to change older people and I have tried to get him to do other things with very little success. I am not trying to run his life, I just want him to try to do more than eat, play cards and watch TV. Any suggestions?

2006-11-25 17:45:42 · 3 answers · asked by BS 1 in Family

tell me that if one is an introvert than is it bad ??
just bcoz it is 21st century..

2006-11-25 17:45:36 · 4 answers · asked by just mee 1 in Singles & Dating

or am i just screaming desperation?

2006-11-25 17:44:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a girl i like is falling for my best friend, but the thing she doesnt know is that my best friend already has a girlfriend. What should i do? i dont want to see her get hurt, i thought about a few things, first... if i go up to her and tell her, she might think that im lying to her just so she would stop liking my friend. secondly if i dont tell her, she will find out eventually and when she does, shes goin to hate me for not telling her before she got rejected

2006-11-25 17:44:26 · 4 answers · asked by o.o 1 in Singles & Dating

We already have a date set, and she knows that I bought a ring...I can't hide anything from her, but I want this to be a surprise. Please help if you can.

2006-11-25 17:44:04 · 5 answers · asked by Stonerscientist 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 17:43:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I met a great guy. He's fat, but amazing. I don't want to feel embarrased later on..will I? Does love really conquer all? Can I stop being a superficial *****?

2006-11-25 17:42:19 · 17 answers · asked by Aqueous Transmission 2 in Singles & Dating

themselves down???? I hate that!

2006-11-25 17:42:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 17:41:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if there are any flirtatious/cute things I can do with, to or for my boyfriend?
- - - - - - - - -
So far I have:
+ Borrowed his current reading book and I stuck a post-it note, reading 'I love post-it notes - but I love you more', on the page he was up to.
+ Swap hats with him every time we are playing sports or have physical education.
+ Snuck up behind him, covered his eyes and asked 'Guess who?'
+ Hugged him unexpectedly and regularly

2006-11-25 17:40:39 · 23 answers · asked by Pandoooo;. 2 in Singles & Dating

His name is raul. Moved here from new mexico. Singer/guitar player. Awesome. HUGE flirt. Barely talks to me, only gives me hugs. EVERY FREAKIN GIRL WANTS THE KID!!! Whats a good way to say "hey, i like you a lot. i want to be your friend, and then i wanna date you.." without saying it? It will take time..but i neeeed help!!

2006-11-25 17:40:08 · 6 answers · asked by tom_delonge43 2 in Singles & Dating

my partner just emailed me saying we need to talk hence I'm going to ring her later on, she said that her mate said some things to her and she (my partner) said I hope it aint true and what the hell, thing is I dont know what she was told.....I'm worried now see my partner knows everything about me so how do I go about this tonight?

advice and fast genuine answers only
Mitch

2006-11-25 17:39:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend has a lot of Jessica Simpson moments... her whole family does, actually... it bugs me... we never have intellectually stimulating conversation... but she is really good to me. has this happened to anyone else and do they learn to love all their mate's imperfections? (i realize im not perfect, too, but for some reason it's hard for me to get over this particular thing...)

today she told me a story about her dad... he said something like this seriously: "i don't want to go to elephant bar! do i look like i want to eat elephant??" and she said her and the rest of her family were cracking up sooooooooo much. and i felt bad and sad for him... and sad that it was her dad that said that (the apple doesn't fall far from the tree). i felt kinda out of place with her whole family when she told me that because i wouldn't think that was funny... just sad.

2006-11-25 17:39:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not i guess....i don't know!??????

2006-11-25 17:38:55 · 15 answers · asked by Stephaine P 1 in Family

aiight this guy i like weve gone out like 4 or 5 times and he acts like hes my bf but were not goin out yet we both want to go out and when sum1 asked him who the last person he kissed was i was standin therr and he was like no1 im like aiight? hes been acting weird wut should i do? plus hes leaving in 10 days for the navy yet he barely calls or talks to me anymore plz wut should i do!!

2006-11-25 17:37:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in reference to "does he want me to go away?"...He has something he shouldnt have and THAT scares me.

2006-11-25 17:36:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see many folks out tonight who are very lonely and down in the dumps as far as love goes. So I'm sending them my regards and best wishes.
Good night and good luck.

2006-11-25 17:36:38 · 12 answers · asked by Tet 4 in Singles & Dating