Im not saying do you always look for marriage but if u know that you two could never be really long term do you even bother?
2006-11-25 17:50:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-25 17:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depend on the situation... As long as you both are under the understanding that marriage isnt what you want then yeah i guess its ok, but girls (for the most part) want to find a man they can spend the rest of their life with and we arent just looking for a "fling", why put all the time and effort in to a relationship if you plan on throwing it away after a few weeks months... even years???
2006-11-26 01:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, we both are in the same boat. I keep telling myself not to be involved anymore since it's not gonna be a long term thing, but hey, my self control is pretty low and still unable to do that just yet.
My best advice is not to bother to prevent headache since another person might get serious and that brings more troubles. However, how do you know it's not gonna be a long term?.
2006-11-26 01:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a tricky thing. I guess if you just want to have someone to go out with rather than stay home and you want to have someone to talk to it's okay to date. If each person understands the relationship is not going to progress beyond a certain point then I guess you could date. I think there's a big potential for being hurt or hurting someone though.
2006-11-26 02:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Hopeful girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you can have fun with someone even if you never get married. Dating is not about marring someone, it is about the enjoyment of another human of the opposite sex and having fun together. However you should always make sure that you are honest with who you date.
2006-11-26 01:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you know they do want marriage. Its not right to lead them on once you know you will never give them what they want and need. They need to be free to date someone who can give them the life they desire. If they dont want marriage, go ahead.
2006-11-26 01:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in it for fun, make sure its clear before the other one takes it to the next level. After that you could always just be friends.
2006-11-26 01:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tori H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont losten to those guys. Do what ever u want! its not about whats guna happen in teh futre, its about whats happening now. live life on teh edge!date, get laid, travel, get laid, then settle down if u want. u never have to marry. i wana do all these things TWICE, before i get married and settle down with a few kids.
Hope that helped somehow
2006-11-26 01:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Pandemonium 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old you are if ur 15 do it cuse you wanna have fun and get layed but if ur like 20 or higher you need to start getting into serious relationships
2006-11-26 01:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by ebrahim.rahmani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You shouldn't do that unles both parties totally agree that you're both dating for fun and no committment is in the cards.
2006-11-26 01:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i dont like wasting my time, and putting myself into situations i dont thoroughly enjoy and look forward too,why even bother,the person might even think you like him or her when you really dont have plans for the both of you
2006-11-26 01:53:48 · answer #11 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋