I don't want it to go further than S*E*X but what do I say?
2006-11-25 17:20:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bone.
break out the kinky stuff.
2006-11-27 06:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by elisioloyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you go any further than sex? I always thought that was all the way! You didn't say whether or not your buddy is of the same or opposit sex; I think that might make a difference too. Unless, you happen to be one of those people who will "do" anyone or anything.
Blondie
2006-11-26 01:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, tell him/her that you are not looking for a serious relationship. I think the whole f**k buddy concept is never a good idea. Somebody usually gets hurt. It's probably best to let him/her down gently and then avoid them.
2006-11-26 01:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain that you do not want or need more. Its the problem with your system. Its hard to have sex without having feelings for most women. If you are hell bent on no strings sex get used to saying goodbye. You can not have it both ways.
2006-11-26 01:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by fancyname 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sucks and I do understand... you just have to tell her the truth and let her know that you had no idea that it was anything more then some friendly sex... I was really mad when my friend said he wanted more because I had been very honest with him and up front and said that it was to be nothing more and he said that was fine... come 2 months later and he confessed he loved me and wanted to be with me. So I just told him the truth and then he cut me off and wanted nothing more to do with me... don't be surprised if she is upset with you and possibly doesn't want to talk to you anymore...
2006-11-26 01:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why people believe they could give the most intimate part of themselves and not get some sort of feelings.
If you don't love this person back let it go and go on to the next.
2006-11-26 01:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When she says "I think I love you..." just say "Nah you don't." lol. If she thinks she's falling in love with you but you don't want a relationship with her, then you are with her too much. Make the sessions less frequent or cut them off altogether.
J
2006-11-26 01:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should sit her/him down and have a serious talk. Then break it off, but you should stay friends -- find another 'buddy', I don't know.
2006-11-26 01:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should say "I don't want it to go further than S*E*X "
and leave it at that
2006-11-26 01:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP F***ing!!!!! I would anyway, yikes you don't want to be misleading, I feel you on the F**K buddy system:)
2006-11-26 01:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by 2sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, umm...first of all you are a playah, a gangsta, and you shouldnt be havin "it" wit someone you dont love. so break it up. wait for the right person dummy.
2006-11-26 01:23:34 · answer #11 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋