Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

First time in my life iv'e been dumped ! I'm 46 and have 2 kids, 18 & 13.I was with my husband for 18yrs,we split 4.5 yrs ago.A year later i met the person who dumped me 2 months ago.Iv'e had a tough year, made homelless, moved 3 times, but at last i'm settled. He was going to move in but ran away the week before he was due to make this commitment, a couple of texts messages to say he couldn't come back and i heard from an aquaintence that he had finished with me.SHOCKING BEHAVIOUR !!
It took me so long to trust him, i only gave him my heart this summer, i know he is a liar, i dumped him 2 yrs ago cos seen going into his ex's flat.
Anyway iv'e found out he is with someone else and he's moving in after only 6 weeks !! I'm still hurting, how can someone move their emotions on so quick ?

2006-11-25 19:58:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee is in another country right now waiting to come here on a visa which is probably going to take atleast 6 more months. When we are together we have great chemistry and good sex that when we are apart it seems that it kills him. He always tell him how much he needs me and stuff but there is not much i can do becuz i am in the U.S. We are planning to visit each other again in January but only for two weeks but then we will be apart again for another three or four months. And I dont know if he can make it. Today he said that he is not happy and that all this is too much for him sometimes. That sometimes he misses me so much that he cant stand it and hes tired of feelin so helpless. I asked him what does he want to do and he said he doesnt want to end it but he knows that he is not happy. Its hard for me to but the thought of losing him is harder so i jus pray and hold on. I know one day we wil be together.

So what should I do?

2006-11-25 19:57:01 · 11 answers · asked by exceptionallyexceptional 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my fiance both drink a lot. so tonight we both drove to the same bar and had drinks with some friends. after they left (they had started drinking before us) i wanted to have another drink but my boyfriend told me no that i'm done. he grabbed me by the arm. pulled me into the parking lot then threw me on the ground. i'm thinking he must be drunker than me but he drank a lot less! but he was acting paranoid! i only had a few drinks! I didn't even drink that much. Some of my friends are like, "see, i told you so." and wanted me to ditch him and hang out. but he never did anything like that before. i was embarrased so i went home. we live together. do you think it was right for him to tell me what to do?

2006-11-25 19:54:31 · 8 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have to do a speech and I'm suppose to share other's reaction.

If someone (not really on good termes with you) suddenly does these things to you:
•Didn’t criticise, condemn or complain
•Gave honest, sincere appreciation (kept saying thank you)
•Became interested in you (your things, your interests n stuff..)
•Smile
•Have been a good listener and encouraged you to talk
•Made you feel important

(seriously) What would be your reaction(s)?

2006-11-25 19:53:08 · 10 answers · asked by andrea 1 in Friends

to meet a nice girl who is looking for a long term relationship. Its just I am in my early 20's and I know clubbing is not one place to go if you are looking to find someone who is interested in a long term relationship because all the girls are looking for their is a good time. So if you have any good ideas it would be apriciated. Also do you think it's to early for a guy to be in a long term relation ship in his early 20's or should I forget about it and wait for a while.

2006-11-25 19:51:28 · 6 answers · asked by Trevor 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone want to talk from the Fort Myers/ Naples FL area?
Message me on Pwnz7321 on Yahoo Messenger.

2006-11-25 19:51:28 · 2 answers · asked by pwnz7321 3 in Singles & Dating

i can't :
cook
have no money
dont want to have kids
have a lousy career.

ever worry for if u get married , yr husband will leave u coz u grow fat , can't cook dont want have kids.

thats what my father always told me .. my husband will leave me because of this..
thats why i find men of my race a bit demanding. ..
what do u think

2006-11-25 19:50:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please make it one paragraph

2006-11-25 19:48:37 · 7 answers · asked by kimlykoa 2 in Friends

He told me he misses me when I'm not around. He said he thinks of me often, throughout the day, and wonders what I'm doing. For a month, we've flirted and hung out probably ten times. He appears to be into me. I try to let him know that I'm into him. Lately, I'm getting frustrated with him for not coming out and saying it and it's taking a lot for me not to lash out at him.

Is he scared to admit to me that he likes me? Or, am I crazy and misreading signals? Also, should I just man up and tell him that I think he's the cat's meow? Oh, the fear of rejection. I think we're both suffering from it.

2006-11-25 19:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by Bree 2 in Singles & Dating

Backdrop- Very outgoing once I meet the right people, and entertaining like an actress/comic with many people. Mom at 17, brought up by a recluse, and usually had friends because there were plenty of people who approached me.
What do I do to get over my fears of reaching out, now that I actually have to? Not a church-goer... any ideas?

2006-11-25 19:47:59 · 2 answers · asked by starryeyed 6 in Friends

me and my gf have been gonig out for about 5 or 6 months. i always tell her i love her when were done talking and i say i miss her when were apart for any extended length of time. i recnetly got her a necklace for her b-day. but when she thinks im not paying attention to her she gets somehwat mad and lets me know til i apologize. i always tell her how much i apreciate her and am glad were together. is this too much? do i give in too easily? she says she loves me more than anything and am the best bf she could ask her but im not sure if she wants something else from me or wants me to change at all

2006-11-25 19:45:54 · 15 answers · asked by jake w 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 14. And I kind of steal GFs. I sometimes hear from girls in my grade what a terrible person I am for confusing the girl. But I dont see why it is bad there is a reason that these girls are driven to me. Opinions, please be polite if u think im a ****wad.

2006-11-25 19:45:46 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Last evening my lady friend called me when I had a customer with me, I told her I would call her back which I did 30 minuits later. She then decided to end the relationship because she had been given tickets for the cinema and it was now to late to go. We hadn't been to the cinema for many years. I called her back later and she started calling me a liar about things I had said And putting me down about the way I live.I live in a caravan on a small holding with very beatifull veiws right out in the country. Should I have sold it and moved in with her in a town I have put up with this person who is the worlds worst time keeper (upto 2hrs late) and the whole family who are money orienated am I rearly in the wrong

2006-11-25 19:45:22 · 8 answers · asked by rocky 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 19:45:00 · 2 answers · asked by peterpenny1028 1 in Singles & Dating

when people talk,they tell many stories,and rumours are spread around. without knowing that,what they tell could effect someone's friendship.

2006-11-25 19:44:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-25 19:43:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well our little groop in school have done secret santa on christmas every year and its my first time,al girls have to give all guys gifts or something for christmas..what should i give?

2006-11-25 19:42:43 · 4 answers · asked by brittny h 1 in Singles & Dating

Just to make them feel better. Even though you didn't really want to?

2006-11-25 19:42:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 19:42:03 · 13 answers · asked by jayson a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this girl in my class, but right now, she has a crush on my friend, my friend already has a gf. i dont want to ask her out right now because i know for SURE she likes my friend, should i wait till after she finds out that my friend has a gf? should i ask her right now? should i be really nice to her and after she gets rejected ill be there to support her? any suggestions?

2006-11-25 19:40:59 · 8 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

He's so annoying with him and his drinking problem. . .we're beyond helping him and now I want him out!! My mom won' do a thing cuz she's just as stubborn as him hoping he'll change. . .I going crazy,he's a menace to society!!!! Please help ME!!!

2006-11-25 19:40:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is asking my wife to vouch for me a good idea? She knows I never lie.

2006-11-25 19:38:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 19:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by shar 1 in Singles & Dating

I love the mother of my kids but I have been having sex with my neighbor. I need a way to get out of this mess and divorce my wife. If anyone is a lawyer and can give me advice on a divorce and a way to keep the house please drop me a line. I dont care about custody of the children she can have them but not a messy divorce.

2006-11-25 19:37:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on the brain.?
i constantly want sex as soon as i wake up till i close my eyes and go to sleep. is this normal or am i abit of a nympo, anyone else the same think my partner is getting abit tired. how di i stop thinking about sex.

2006-11-25 19:36:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are having many people around us but whom of them we can consider as our good friends . how a person can decide that a perticular person is his good friend.

2006-11-25 19:36:02 · 8 answers · asked by kamal_sheru 1 in Friends

He hasn't called?
Well I called my guy friend, that I have been flirting with a lot before the long weeken, on weds and he hasn't called me back.
Wouldn't he called me as a friend to see why i called?
Do you think he Knows i like him as more and doesn't want to lead me on?

on his cell message machine i just said "Hi its me just wanted to talk call me back"

I really thought he liked me this last week we were flirting with each other so much it was so much fun. Wouldn't he call me to say hi?
I'm a little sad.

2006-11-25 19:35:56 · 3 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

im not into premarital sex and my bf is all for it.
i counldnt sleep and my bf is a really deep sleeper so when i cant sleep i just lay on top of him & its helps me go to sleep.but it didnt work so i started playing with his hair he lets his hair grow to his waist before he cuts it. it makes him look really sexy.so i was siting on his chest leaning over him playing with his hair when i fell his hand on my *ss my boobs are all in his face i sit up & hes got this wierd grin on his face.he pulls me down and keeps on trying to get me to have sex with him.i pussed him away but now every chance he gets he tries to have sex with me.hes never seen me in the clothes i sleep in because hes always sleep when i come and im up early in the moring i sleep with a really short tee shirt and some short shorts. and i still cant get him to stop. i dont want to end it with him but i just want him to stop.
how do i get him to stop ?

2006-11-25 19:34:07 · 15 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 19:31:56 · 13 answers · asked by Dr. Aabroo Aman 2 in Family

are women really attracted to the romantic stuff like in the pictures? I mean this is comming from a guy who neva had the chance to date. And what if your a vergin? Will they still think of you romantically?

2006-11-25 19:31:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating