im not into premarital sex and my bf is all for it.
i counldnt sleep and my bf is a really deep sleeper so when i cant sleep i just lay on top of him & its helps me go to sleep.but it didnt work so i started playing with his hair he lets his hair grow to his waist before he cuts it. it makes him look really sexy.so i was siting on his chest leaning over him playing with his hair when i fell his hand on my *ss my boobs are all in his face i sit up & hes got this wierd grin on his face.he pulls me down and keeps on trying to get me to have sex with him.i pussed him away but now every chance he gets he tries to have sex with me.hes never seen me in the clothes i sleep in because hes always sleep when i come and im up early in the moring i sleep with a really short tee shirt and some short shorts. and i still cant get him to stop. i dont want to end it with him but i just want him to stop.
how do i get him to stop ?
2006-11-25 19:34:07 · 15 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that it makes you feel cheap when he treats you that way.....and STOP TEASING HIM!!! Geesh! If I woke up and had a person lying on top of me, that would have been my first assumption too....and I'm female! You might want to start with separate bedrooms. If you regularly sleep with the guy, how can you expect him to respect your wishes to abstain? It's like saying one thing and doing the opposite. Actions speak louder than words. So, the best way to get him to stop thinking about sex is to stop tempting him with it.
2006-11-25 19:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by AileneWright 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so this is a question for 2 points only and you are joking with us.
First of all I'd like to know just what you call a "boyfriend". A "boyfriend" is someone you have sex with, a "friend" is someone you don't have sex with. You don't lead a friend on (tease him) and then tell him no, or some day he will get angry and beat you up or maybe even rape you and then there will be problems or, in your case, since you seem unprepared and childlike, a pregnancy that you are unprepared for.
No female should be sleeping with or resting on any male unless they are married. You're asking for trouble. You are a child, and you need to give yourself time to grow up, tell him that as well, and start hanging out with the girls instead of with the guys until you're a lot older.
He's a male and is not going to stop asking you for sex. You, on the other hand are playing with his mind, sending him mixed messages, and are asking for trouble. Your actions are telling him you ARE into premarital sex. Change your actions and walk away from him.
2006-11-25 19:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did what all girl do when their boyfriend sleap and they want a have sex with him. When he woke up he thought that you wanted it too, and maybe a part of you wanted it. You know it's not that bat to have sex before marriage if you are ol enough. You know when it's not good to have sex with the man with who your get married it don't get really better after, and it's realy hard to have sex with him days after days, at the point at it can broke down a marriage our push a man, our is wif, to have other relationships. If you love your boyfriend and if you are ready to have sex what are you stopping yourself just because of this no primarital sex things. Religion isn't every thing, you have to be free. And don't forget than when religion decided that we couldn't have remarital sex girls where married at 16-18.
And if you really, far in yourself, don't want to maxe love with your boyfriend stop sleaping with him. And if you still want to sleap with him find some clothes not sexy AT ALL (like a long old shirt and long trousers
2006-11-25 19:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From his point of view he probably thinks you're leading him on and being a tease. If I were you I'd have a word with him and explain everything clearly and carefully. If you keep turning him down after a while, also, he will eventually get the idea but he may feel his ego crushed.
2006-11-25 19:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are sending a mixed signal. You dont want to have sex, but you are in the "having sex" forum, the same bed. Why dont you sleep with your arms around a pillow, you can get those long pillows. You are teasing him and one day, he might not stop. It happened to me. Please be careful.
If he wants to break up, then it would happen sooner or later.
2006-11-25 19:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 13:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by canevazzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop teasing him! He is a MAN! You cannot lay on him with your boobs in his face and expect him not to act.
Lay down the ground rules tell him to knock it off or else. But you have to stop teasing him it is not fair.
2006-11-25 19:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried just coming out and saying (again) that you don't want to have sex with him. Do that, and if he still doesn't get it, get rid of him. If he can't respect your wishes now, that only spells trouble down the road.
2006-11-25 19:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are sexual beings.
For one thing, stop sleeping with him. As in, stop sleeping in the same bed. Its too much for him to handle.
If he is pressuing you and not respecting limits that you have clearly set, he never will.
You need to find someone who loves you enough to respect your values.
Good Luck!
2006-11-25 19:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to stop being such a tease. Honestly, take a look at your behavior. You lead him on and then tell him to stop. I hope he dumps you.
2006-11-25 19:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Sum guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋