He hasn't called?

Question

He hasn't called?
Well I called my guy friend, that I have been flirting with a lot before the long weeken, on weds and he hasn't called me back.
Wouldn't he called me as a friend to see why i called?
Do you think he Knows i like him as more and doesn't want to lead me on?

on his cell message machine i just said "Hi its me just wanted to talk call me back"

I really thought he liked me this last week we were flirting with each other so much it was so much fun. Wouldn't he call me to say hi?
I'm a little sad.

I'll see him monday should i say anything

my heart hearts but nothing has happend.

Answer 1

He hasn't called you back because you have invested more emotionally in that message than he has.
The message is a big deal TO YOU because you have invested so much emotional energey into it. To him, it is just a message saying nothing is urgent, call me when you feel like it. This is one of the things men say is 'game playing' (in my experience) when in fact it is just different perspective.
If you want to set a time limit on this issue, call back and leave another message that says call me back by such time and date. You are seeing more in that message than he is so you can't hold him responsible for not acting on it like it has the importance you are ascribing.

Answer 2

It's been a buy week, with Thanksgiving and everything. Since you guys are friends he probably assumes he can talk to you whenever, so he doesn't feel rushed. If he doesnt call you in a couple more days, call him again, there's no harm in it. If he doesn't call back, screw him. you can do better, if the jerk doesn't return phone calls, he's rude, and you don't need a rude guy....thats fa sho!

Answer 3

oh dear wait don't be sad. just wait a second. look. you found someone to flirt with. and now you aren't together. it could be a lot of things. remember...have you ever forgotten your phone somewhere? or heard of someone breaking a phone? i have and i lost some people's phone numbers forever. lucky for me i could find most of them again. don't worry Hun, just be happy remembering what you felt before. think of what you want to say when you see him again. what are the things you would like to do. what have you seen or done you would like to share with him when you see him again. why don't you write him a letter. or get him a card. it's almost Christmas. say a prayer for him. ask
God to protect him and to strengthen you.

but don't you ever forget. God doesn't want us to feel unloved. you are always loved by the One who created you and having someone to share that with is even better. if he's really ignoring you, he's the one missing out and you will be better off without him. but wait till you hear back first. something might have happened. go to church tomorrow. he might be there.