He told me he misses me when I'm not around. He said he thinks of me often, throughout the day, and wonders what I'm doing. For a month, we've flirted and hung out probably ten times. He appears to be into me. I try to let him know that I'm into him. Lately, I'm getting frustrated with him for not coming out and saying it and it's taking a lot for me not to lash out at him.
Is he scared to admit to me that he likes me? Or, am I crazy and misreading signals? Also, should I just man up and tell him that I think he's the cat's meow? Oh, the fear of rejection. I think we're both suffering from it.
2006-11-25 19:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by Bree 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until you're alone and he says something like, "I missed you..." and say: "Ok. Is there something here that we're not saying? Is there more than flirting here?" (That doesn't show that you like him, so there's no rejection.)
2006-11-25 19:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by ja3po 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, cool! you are in a place so many people long to be. do you have any idea how many people are still looking for someone to talk to? how many people have lost their homes in Katrina and just need food? think about it for a second...you have someone to talk to, someone who thinks of you often, flirts with you and likes you so much they are afraid to lose you. i would be happy, i know it's not easy, but i would be happy just to hear from this person. and i would think of them all day. and wonder what they are doing.
yes he's afraid. afraid of finding out that you might not want him, because he values your company. but don't take this period of time from yourselves. let HIM man up. maybe even encourage him. there's always a great woman behind a good man. enjoy it. just hearing it brings tears to someone's eyes remembering when they were just getting to know their wife. the wife they were married to for 50 years. the wife that sowed in the garden. the wife they had children with so many years ago. and maybe the wife they just buried this past month.
say a prayer of thanks for your situation it is a joyous one
2006-11-26 04:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by just a carpenter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A month is not a long time, especially for guys. They have a lot to think about and are not quick to express their emotional feelings. Why not just continue to hang out and have fun. Don't stress out over it and enjoy his company as you have been.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-11-26 03:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. your right you both are suffering. So take the high ground, give cat's meow a jump start, you'll be glad you did.
2006-11-26 03:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't set yourself up for rejection. Play hard to get!!! Guy's want a challenge!
2006-11-26 03:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by cweetepye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you for sure, maybe too shy to act on it.Just kiss him, make a move, plainly tell him how you feel,lashing out will only get you the result you'll least like.
2006-11-26 03:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by godzilla99s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you hit it on the head. You're both afraid of rejection.
2006-11-26 03:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Even if he doesn't feel the same way, it doesn't change how you feel. Someone has to go first...it might as well be you.
2006-11-26 03:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by SuperJulie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-26 03:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mary R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's jaz playing i thnk so...,
you ask ur self if you are crazy!!!, i cn't answer dat question..
tke note men are MONSTERS!!so beware of them..
2006-11-26 03:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋