He's so annoying with him and his drinking problem. . .we're beyond helping him and now I want him out!! My mom won' do a thing cuz she's just as stubborn as him hoping he'll change. . .I going crazy,he's a menace to society!!!! Please help ME!!!
2006-11-25 19:40:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Forgot to add, it's not my house. . . it's my stubborn mom
2006-11-25 19:46:44 · update #1
I've prayed to God numerous times. . .it's been 5 years. . .
2006-11-25 19:52:46 · update #2
Before I got married, I and my drunken brother lived with my now late father. My bro worked second shift, and would often, after the bar closed, run his stereo in his car until 5:00 in the morning! He got caught drunk driving on a couple of occasions, and all, when he got put on a restricted license, it only caused him to drink more, and be more bitter toward both society, as well as the ones who cared about him!
I tell you this to let you know that some people are going to reject any and all help from loved ones, and drink more to rebel against it! I know it is very stressful on both you, your mother, and whoever else may be living in your home, but that's the way alcohol effects people! Best thing I can tell you is to try to find a support group, and pray for this drunken loved one daily! As somebody who went through years of what you're going through now, my heart goes out for you my friend! God's wisdom and strength be yours!
2006-11-25 19:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is your mother's home there really isn't to much you can do.All i can say is keep an eye over your mom and keep her safe.You do not know when ever this person may try to hurt her while he is drunk.Drunks and alcoholics are unpredictable and can snap at any given moment or word or action.It doesn't matter if you are keeping your mouth shut or not.Be Carefull!
2006-11-26 03:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by michele k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried KNEELING DOWN TO PRAY. With your present problem only GOD can help you without hurting your mom's feeling. You can always CRY ALL OUT TO GOD. Remember "PRAYER CAN MOVE MOUNTAINS". GOD might help him overcome the problem. MIRACLES STILL HAPPEN THIS DAYS
2006-11-26 03:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by d pogi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad your mom won't kick him out. If you are on legal age, move out if u can.
2006-11-26 04:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your house or your mom's? If its yours put him out. If not I don't know what to say
2006-11-26 03:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pour all of your alcohol down the drain
then, when they go to the store,
change the locks.
2006-11-26 03:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got duct tape?
2006-11-26 03:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Toddzilla SoCal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move. Been through it.
2006-11-26 03:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THROW THAT MUTHAFUCK* OUT...LOLz
2006-11-26 03:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
kick they *** OUTTTTT
2006-11-26 03:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by mrsquanta325 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋