Last evening my lady friend called me when I had a customer with me, I told her I would call her back which I did 30 minuits later. She then decided to end the relationship because she had been given tickets for the cinema and it was now to late to go. We hadn't been to the cinema for many years. I called her back later and she started calling me a liar about things I had said And putting me down about the way I live.I live in a caravan on a small holding with very beatifull veiws right out in the country. Should I have sold it and moved in with her in a town I have put up with this person who is the worlds worst time keeper (upto 2hrs late) and the whole family who are money orienated am I rearly in the wrong
2006-11-25 19:45:22 · 8 answers · asked by rocky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, in any relationship from 10 days to 10 years, you shouldnt have to change the way you are just to fit in with someone.
It sounds like your lady friend doenst really respect you and your life...
2006-11-25 19:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by cadippoz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a relationship can become more of a "habit" than anything positive. I am feeling the same way in my 4yr relationship, I have sat done and written down all the things that I fell in love with about this person and now all the things that are ruining what we have and the negative far out weighs the positive these days, it seems for my own happiness I have to say its over.... sometimes love just isn't enough... good luck :)
2006-11-25 19:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by genieejj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there's a lot more to it than you mention tho I'm sure its not easy to include all of the 10 years here! If she's complaining about you and likewise you about her then its probably both your faults for not dealing with the issues immediately and getting on with being happy together.
Sounds like you both need to make some compromises and communicate better if you want things to continue.
Good luck
2006-11-25 19:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like there was a build up to this breakup - she used the cinema tickets situation to end the relationship but there was more behind it. from your question i get the feeling that you have different values to each other (you value the beauty of the countryside and she enjoys the hustle and bustle of town life) - maybe it has run it's course anyhow. hope that you aren't hurting and sending you a hug ~x~
2006-11-25 20:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by mousie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that the cinema thing was the last straw and there are other issues. I do think that it's for the best though. She should take you as you are and not try to change you.
2006-11-26 02:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Little One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi that became me 8 years in the past...i became in purely approximately the comparable bind I stayed we also have a 14yr previous the 18 graduated and is residing on her very own. And the 14yr previous loves her dad. and that i'm the lonelest guy or woman in this worldwide. My teenagers love me that gets me via my husband continues to be the super prick he became then. maybe this is why i'm right here and not w/him watching television i like it extra useful good right here
2016-10-17 13:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by canevazzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on she sounds high maintenance.
2006-11-25 19:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya better off without her
2006-11-25 21:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by lillypops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋