Backdrop- Very outgoing once I meet the right people, and entertaining like an actress/comic with many people. Mom at 17, brought up by a recluse, and usually had friends because there were plenty of people who approached me.
What do I do to get over my fears of reaching out, now that I actually have to? Not a church-goer... any ideas?
2006-11-25 19:47:59 · 2 answers · asked by starryeyed 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hmmmmm...Really shy,eh? I used to be real shy,too. If you are not a church goer (as you say) and have no desire to start,find someplace else where people gather (Bar,coffe shop,truckstop,etc,etc) and engage in small talk "Hey,How are Ya? Is that a Chevy your driving? I used to have one like that.
Also,find someplace you can volunteer at...
Hope those ideas help....
2006-11-25 20:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce your self to your neighbors.They are probably wondering why you haven't already. Or go to the local coffeee shop and talk to the coffe drinkers. They will tell you everything about everybody in town.
2006-11-26 03:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by *ACDC* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋