My all friends r going away from me. Whenever in their life any problem comes i always try to help them as much as i can but now when my bf broke my trust nd i am alone no friend come to me to ask anything nd to help me. They all r going away from me. All say that no one is our in hard time but i never agreed it coz i thought that if i help others in their hard time then how can i be alone in my hard time but today i see myself that really there is no one in hard time. What should i do?
2006-11-25 18:44:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thts true this happens many a times, also u cant expect frm others wht u give
though u dont feel tht u hve any true frnds u still have 2 true ones, wht v call as angles yup our parents they surely will show u right path
1 more thing i m like u a true frnd, though i dont face any such probs, bt i like making frnds who r true in this relation as i m.
my email id is muskaan_thts_me@yahoo.co.in
2006-11-25 20:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously your friends are not real friends. no matter what kind of problems you may be facing, they should obviously be there for you when you need help, especially since you tried to help them when they had problems.
try to get over your current problems somehow- depending on the type of problem you may ask for help from a specialist, a relative or even a complete stranger here on this site. there must be a solution to any problem in the world. and after that remember that they ran away when you were in trouble and never ever count on them again- they just used you when they had a chance. friendship, just like love, must be mutual and shared, not one-sided.
good luck in solving your problems and take care with future friends- people may be selfish and mean.
2006-11-27 10:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by monica06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sangeeta . Let me tale you one think --first upon leave u r worry and dont think ever that u r alone . may be you r right that u r away from the freinds. may be thay r wrong but do u ever tried to find out the answer? see i am sorry to say pls admit u r mistakes if any done even un intentionaly. then u will find why peolples r going away from you . thay be getting hurt by your any act . see even i was facing the same problem - but one day i went on one of the railway station that is near khandala nr to pune that is very lonely platforms . and i thaught what was wrong by me - that time i realise i was thinking my self master of all things and was tryed to make my freinds my followers. but that was wrong i was wrong to convince them my openion. and then i tryed to chenge delivery of my thaughts and now i am happy i have very good freinds. and againg this one fase dont worry every thingwill be all right . just focus on u r work or study . and still any problem u can mail me --
deepak_sharma313@yahoo.com
2006-11-26 02:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by deepak s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry that your friends are not helping you but if they were true friends this would not happen. Maybe you should go to your parents our your grandparents for help I just don't see you getting the help you need on this site. You could always try the Bible.
Good Luck
2006-11-26 02:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by rbrm799 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont care about your friends.u r always happy when u r alone.when u r alone u r soul is u r only friend.i had enough of my friends.they all used me and my money.u r always happy when u r alone.just listen to music or read a book or fanatasize urself.for the last few years i dont hav friends.....i mean i hav friends who dont ask money ...one thing dont help others...help urself.enjoy urself.u hav only one life.i got a god lesson from my friends.one thing there r no real friends in life...if there r any friends that is money...they come for ur money.plzzz dont pput money for others.thts my request.
2006-11-27 16:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by naidu n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The u had very bad company u can not call them as friends and do not expect any help from any one. if u expect and do not get u will get disapointment . Be friendly with every one but keep a limit TILL U FIND A GOOD FRIEND.
2006-11-26 05:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by cindrella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is sad. It shows you who your true friends are though. Friends are hard to come by, and I don't know you but I am a good friend and if you ever need someone to talk to or just listen to you I am here.
2006-11-26 02:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no true friendship left in this world...I used to get depressed for not having best friend...in fact I never had one..the one I consider talked behind my back and always been jealous..so if friendsh suppose to be that way - I better left out alone...ONLY GOD IS YOUR ONLY TRUE FRIEND
2006-11-29 20:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u fear when all u r friends r there in yahoo answers , be brave and dont trust anybody except u r self. U r the one and only the one who can help u r self ,so be strong and forget u r friends.
2006-11-26 07:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by shakthi v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should realise that you are a strong person who really doesn't need anyone to tell her what she already knows. yes, moral support is good to have, but not really necessary. you already have all the strength you need, just call it up from with in. and after this crisis is over , remember who your real friends are. maybe you need some new ones.
2006-11-27 01:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by cee jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋