2006-11-25 18:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by 2cool4fools 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sure is a whole lot nicer to be with someone that is attentive. If you want a man to make good money, build a nice house, etc., then it doesn't matter. To have a husband that you can talk to and confide in then the inattentive man won't do. It's by far a better marriage if you have someone you can share your life with. When someone notices that you are sad, or happy, or lonely, and responds to your different moods you can become as one. Find a husband who makes you laugh, and someone who will cry with you and one who will be your friend.
2006-11-25 20:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kyra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if he's willing to change for the Better of the relationship. but if he chooses to continue to be inattentive, KNOWING fully well that you do not like it, and it makes you feel sad, then he will NOT make a good husband.
the thing is, esp in a Marriage, you have to know that you both can work together to get thru something, and respect each other to do what is Best for the Marriage, the Relationship, for Each Other. u need to figure all of that out during the Dating process.. if he EVER shows u lack of respect, inability to compromise, exasperation at things that any Normal woman or Person would NEED in a relationship (for example, ATTENTION), then ur in for some arguments. and it's how u get Thru those arguments that is going to determine whether or not he is marriage quality or not. good luck, and have expectations: from urself as a future wife, woman, mother, and from ur partner, as a future husband, MAN, and father.
take care~
2006-11-25 18:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your love language. Could you be happy with an inattentive husband? For example, if your love language is personal touch, or words of affirmation requiring that your husband pay attention to how you're feeling then this man would not make you happy.
2006-11-25 19:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by shannonscreativechaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if you want to get divorced, or to be neglected for the rest of your marriage. If he is inattentive in the dating period do you really think he will change after marriage? You will be a neglected lonley wife and later a single mother with a husband who you and your child resent for not being there for the two or three of you.
2006-11-25 19:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by summertime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what your definition of a 'good' husband is. If you mean someone who will care for you, respect you, and love you, then no: an inattentive husband won't be - or do - that.
2006-11-25 18:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he is one of the following:
1) Very rich and don't give two rats tail what you do
2) One foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel
3) on oxygen with only hours to live
4) Really rich and dying!
5) Call me if he dies....I'll help you out!
2006-11-25 18:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by John M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think to yourself, would you be happy with someone who would not really have a conversation with you, unless you don not say much, then no i do not think you would be happy, when in relationship the longer you are together the more you start to talk and grow, and being attentive is important, maybe you can change him, if you have to change someone, then it not a good thing
2006-11-25 18:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by srw w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2006-11-26 01:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by bobbysgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if u like being ignored or plan on cheating on him.
2006-11-25 18:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I , uh.......yeah.......umm......yes dear.......uh huh.......ok honey.......now what did you say again?
2006-11-25 18:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by hookiejr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋