im not into premarital sex and my bf is all for it.
i counldnt sleep and my bf is a really deep sleeper so when i cant sleep i just lay on top of him & its helps me go to sleep.but it didnt work so i started playing with his hair he lets his hair grow to his waist before he cuts it. it makes him look really sexy.so i was siting on his chest leaning over him playing with his hair when i fell his hand on my *ss my boobs are all in his face i sit up & hes got this wierd grin on his face.he pulls me down and keeps on trying to get me to have sex with him.i pussed him away but now every chance he gets he tries to have sex with me.hes never seen me in the clothes i sleep in because hes always sleep when i come and im up early in the moring i sleep with a really short tee shirt and some short shorts. and i still cant get him to stop. i dont want to end it with hihm but i just want him to stop.
how do i get him to stop ?
2006-11-25 19:05:49 · 17 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you play with fire...You are sure to get burnt! Stop teasing him!!!
2006-11-25 19:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a nooby about this whole no sex before marriage things. Does oral count??? That may help if it does not. Or hand jobs. Unless your getting married soon it does not look like this is going to work out for you two. But then again I have not seen what the whole relationship is like so I have nothing to judge from.
Good luck really nothing you can do unless you somehow sexually relive him without breaking the whole sex before marriage things. Maybe your already doing those things then your really out of luck in my opinion.
2006-11-25 19:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
you are being somewhat unrealistic if you think he is not going to try while you are sharing a bed.
If you dont want to put yourself in that situation then sleep in another room - or find somewhere else to live.
Also your actions in laying on top of him are suggesting to him that you really do want to have sex with him ; regardless of what you say.
It would seem that you need to grow up some more before you are really ready for a committed relationship.
i am NOT knocking you for your stand on pre-marital sex - just suggesting that you really think about your actions & find out more about how the male mind works.
2006-11-25 19:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by fairypelican 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you sleeping with him in the first place. If you are laying on top of him and putting your boobs in his face what is he suppose to expect. If your not into premarital sex, stop acting like it. You are sending him mixed signals. Stay in your own bed and stop prancing around half naked and he wont be thinking about sex all the time.
2006-11-25 19:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by summertime 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only way he is going to stop trying is when he really appreciates and respects your point of view. You really have to try to get this across to him, but if you cant, you may have to consider the option of telling him you are going to break up with him if he keeps pressuring you. This is a risk of course, because he may see your bluff and decide to leave. You have to way up what is more important to you. Be careful, he may have sex with you while your asleep, it happens.
2006-11-25 19:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by sunline 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh I would tell him hes risking the relationship you have with him. I mean my ex girlfriend didn't want to have sex and I got to admit it was hard for me to not have sex. but it's all about self control. A decent guy won't try to force you to have sex with him, maybe you can do sexual things to avoid intercourse instead. Though this guy seems like trouble, I am not saying break up with him but you and him need to have a serious talk before this escalates.
2006-11-25 19:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by T boy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
purely be user-friendly and direct with him. tell him you're purely no longer waiting for it yet, and additionally you will permit him recognize once you're. If he retains attempting to alter your strategies, tell him to resign doing that because of the fact it may no longer take place, and additionally you would be waiting once you're arranged. You mentioned which you do no longer prefer to have vaginal intercourse with him... does that mean you're doing different types? if that's the case then he has no longer something to ***** approximately, this is in comparison to he's sexually pissed off
2016-10-17 13:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by canevazzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sleeping in the same bed as him would be a start
2006-11-25 19:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by Miss 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whatever!! If this is half true, you have aroused him to holy hell. If you are for real, I would drop you like yesterday's news. If he is committed to you and vice versa, and you play these bullcrap games, you have issues. If you are a prude, then dress, act and sleep like one.
2006-11-25 19:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by Henry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to earth. you're at that age where guys want to have sex and girls are holding on to their virginity. trust me in a couple of years, you'll be jumping all over him or some other guy. as soon as girls lose their virginity, they're hooked. i suggest you "get your guy off" and he'll leave ya alone for a while ;) or dump him if you hate that too
2006-11-25 19:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋