i am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 22. we have been together since 2004. we have a relationship and i didnt told my mother about it..i was going to the house of my boyfriend to see him. my mother had known about it when it was our 17th month.my mom spanked me.then my boyfiend talked to my mom and they agreed that my boyfriend will go to our house to visit me instead of me going to their house. but i continued going in their house secretly. now i and my boyfriend are having a long distance relationship because im studying. anyway(my boyfriend didnt graduate in college because of the foolishness he had done before) now, my mom is advicing me not to give my full attention to my boyfriend and not to take him seriously. i really love my boyfriend. now, he's trying to find some work instead of continuing college. what will i do???
2006-11-25 18:47:03 · 5 answers · asked by chantal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well it's pretty obvious what choices he has made.
you can't argue with love :) don't try. reason with yourself instead. what do you want out of life (except this boy)? what do you want to accomplish? what type of person you wanna be? can you be better and what can you do to be the best you can?... find answers to your issues. be the kind of person you'd like to.
than talk to your mother - look - i want this this and this out of life.
i love this boy, he makes me feel this that and so on. i like being with him because he does this and that (she's been there she can relate :) ) - if being with him makes you fall from your path and from the things you would like to accomplish, than your mom is right, if not, if it makes you give more and try harder, than explain that to your mother.
if that does not work, tell your mother that she has no idea what she really wants and keep doing what you feel it could be the best.... remember that your mother will always be your mother. she wants your best. everyone else wants the best for themself, even your bf... so take care
2006-11-25 19:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by G01an 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
explain to your mother that it's your life and you want to decide who you want to live with because at the end of the day, you are the one going to live with him. pls dont be rude, you'll hurt your mum's feelings. but tell her nicely and if she does not listen wait till you're 18 and you do NOT need her advice anymore. good luck!
2006-11-25 19:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by mapgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
college isnt for everyone .. it'll work out just dont push him into something hes not interested in... if he really wants to he will go back and finsh.. but also college cost money so he might be saving up so that he can finish
2006-11-25 18:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by love_ridden_85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too young for that bs.
2006-11-25 19:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by prettyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angie!!! Love has no bounderies,
2006-11-25 18:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by Musah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋