Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

my daughter has been married for 4 years to a man in the millitary. he does have some control issues with her, which i never thought were so serious, but i guess they are. he is deployed now and she feels the relationship will never get any better, and wants to separate or even divorce him when he gets back. she says she has given him too many chances to change his behavior, to only have things revert back to the old ways. i have tried to talk her out of this because of there son. she wont get counseling, but he says he will when he gets back to save their family. she tells me hes out of chances. i really do like him and hope he can change for his own sake , but i feel shes making a mistake. he has called my husband from korea, and he seems heartbroken. she says she dosent feel the same about the relationship since he hasent changed. also i think she may be talking to other guys, just talk, but i dont feel thats right. im worried for all of them, especially the little boy.

2006-11-10 04:18:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a friend is lookin to ease his shyness, he loves to have fun ,but dont know how to approach ladies.Very shy and good

2006-11-10 04:18:07 · 10 answers · asked by nanayo 1 in Singles & Dating

the baby in not the husbands...

2006-11-10 04:18:07 · 11 answers · asked by fire_child 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's cold and supposed to snow, and neither of us want to sit at home today, we're both adults so some of the little kid ideas might seem a little well little kidish, but I have no ideas and he can't ever think of anything to do, we don't have any extra money this week to go out and do anything so cheap things would be great.

2006-11-10 04:16:48 · 38 answers · asked by Bee 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok the thing is my dad is always raggin on my boyfriend... who is a really good guy that don't try anything with me and he cares for me and not what he can get. well my dad liked this other boyfriend who treated me like crap and everytime we were alone he tried to get in my pants... i'm not like that i'm waiting for the right person. last night me and my father got into a fight because for the last past two weeks we have been fighting... and the last past two weeks i haven't been happy unless i'm at school or talking on the phone with my bf. and i'm getting really depressed and i've cried everynight. two weeks ago was my "sweet 16" b day well give you a little hint of how it went i didn't get to do anything and i didn't get a present from my dad... it seems like i try and make everybody happy and when i do that i'm not happy at all. i don't know what i'm supose to do with a dad that wants me to be perfect and don't like the truth? please some advice!!!

2006-11-10 04:16:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy says "I think blah blah likes you" and then says "heyy are you and him dating"-jokingly and then goes "you are single right?"-is he interested or just making casual conversation?? :)

2006-11-10 04:16:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As they say, "Behind every great man is a great woman." Is it possble to overcome a crappy spouse?

2006-11-10 04:15:05 · 14 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 04:14:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 04:14:26 · 30 answers · asked by jelly1909 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i are going away this wknd, i want to give him a sexy surprise... but not sure what? any ideas?

2006-11-10 04:14:17 · 9 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

be doing for the weekend?

2006-11-10 04:13:45 · 4 answers · asked by tired l 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 and still live at home and I spend about £50 a week on books, dvds and cds and feel guilty. Should I? I work full-time but feel like I should have moved out but don't see the point as I don't have a girlfriend yet

2006-11-10 04:12:11 · 17 answers · asked by polp d 1 in Weddings

I'm 17 and I talk to a 30 year old and his breath stink and I need some help to break up with him cause I don't want to hurt his feelings

2006-11-10 04:11:49 · 22 answers · asked by Princess01 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 04:11:48 · 26 answers · asked by jimbobishnuma 1 in Friends

I was working in the yard and my two married male neighbrs were aslo workig in their yards. They thought that it was funny that their wives had to ask them ten times to put out the garbage before they did and that they refused to change the roll of toilet paper. I don't get it. These are the same men who would ask, "Why is my wife always so angry?" MEN, please explain your behavior.

2006-11-10 04:11:47 · 16 answers · asked by terry g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he hasn't been at school for a week right after the day i finally told him how much i love him......i mean we've already got pasted the awkward i love you stage and we both say it alot but i havent heard it from him in a while and after he read how i felt he finally told me that he loved me after a long break of him not saying it........im so in love with him but im not sure how exactly he feels about me........how can i get it out of him?

2006-11-10 04:11:20 · 4 answers · asked by arian6391 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend and a chill friend. I let both touch and see but im still a virgin. I like both a lot and when im alone with each i let them do they thing. If i had to choose who i like the most it would be my chill dude. Should i break up with my man to go with the other one or should i leave things the way they are. My chill dude does know i have a boyfriend and he lets me know he still wants to be with me. What should i do at such a young age. Im 14 my boyfriend is about to be 17 and the other dude is 17 bout to be 18

2006-11-10 04:10:58 · 19 answers · asked by chrisbrownswifey 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 04:10:36 · 1 answers · asked by zulmari2001 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-10 04:10:26 · 16 answers · asked by kzk fan 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean stuff like stopping time or something like that!

2006-11-10 04:10:17 · 13 answers · asked by oreo cool mint cream 1 in Singles & Dating

i am open minded talk nicely to all . all my relatives do taking advantage out of it. they extract full details and threaten me indirectly. this is affecting my thinking and subconscious fear arising and killing my mental peace. worry fear anger subsaequently building up inside. how to handle this kind of persons. this is serious problem to me. please guide me whether these things affect my life?

2006-11-10 04:09:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

watching me over my shoulder, thru the window if I'm outside. I cook and clean and basically holw up in the basement. I don't know how to cope with this. I go for long walks all the time but the little time I get 'alone' doesn't seem to be enough. I feel like I'm losing it. My husband travels for work and is gone all week long, I don't want to burden him with this(I have been in horrible moods when he comes home for the weekend and it seems to be going that way again.) I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

2006-11-10 04:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by kardea 4 in Family

I'd like to get them a token gift to say 'thank you' from my son for being his godparents.

2006-11-10 04:08:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am talking to this guy, and I added him to my address book. When I did I typed the wrong name. Because he is a new friend I have not really had to call him by his name. Last night I decided to send him an email and I called him the wrong name twice. It was a mistake and I sent him an email saying sorry. The thing is I have slept with this guy while thinking the whole time his name was something else based on what I typed in my address book.

Do you think I hurt his feelings? The guy's name that I called him I did not sleep with that guy nor do I even know a guy named that. I don't even know where I got the name from that I called him. Also I will add that when we slept together he got performance anxiety so I don't know if I have added salt to the wound or not, and no I did not call any names when we slept together. This was really a mistake. This guy is just suppose to be a booty call, but he speaks to me everyday. Tell me what you think. What have I done if anything.

2006-11-10 04:08:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've met a guy. He's unlike anyone I've ever met before. But he has no idea how I feel about him, and to make matters worse, I recently found out he has a steady partner. Every time I talk to him in a friendly way, it makes me even more sad because I know I cannot have him, and if I avoid him I'm miserable without his company.
I can't even meet new people because I work long hours and don't have time for social activities, and no friends who are willing to go anywhere with me.
I'm becoming increasingly deressed; what can I do?

2006-11-10 04:08:09 · 21 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Singles & Dating

Our first four years of marriage were good. My husband then became a partner at an accounting firm. He then began to work long hours and on weekends. We stopped going out. I began to go out with female friends rather than mope around the house. I began to drink a lot at night after everyone was in bed. My husband moved out about 7 months ago, saying that it was because of my drinking.
Two weeks after he left, I started counseling and AA, I have not had a drink since other than near beer. Meanwhile, he became involved with a woman we both know and some other woman that he met somewhere. They split up about a month ago. He wants us to try to get back together. He says that he still loves me and the kids and wants to try to be a family again, including counseling. Your thoughts?

2006-11-10 04:08:05 · 17 answers · asked by terry g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 04:07:40 · 8 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my man and i was talking on the phone one day last month and he asked me if i wanted to have kids? so i said yes because i want kids by him. so he said that as soon as he gets enough money saved up so we can start saving for the kids he wants to start trying to have some. is he telling the truth? hes going through a hard time at his job just so he can save the money. i think hes telling the truth but i was wanting to know for sure?

2006-11-10 04:07:18 · 15 answers · asked by deamon 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently told my (boy) mate that my feelings for him stretched beyond those of a friend. He said it was ok and hugged me, he has been acting no different than before and neither have I. I don't know what hes feelin or how to handle it, pls help me...

2006-11-10 04:06:08 · 12 answers · asked by supastar_666 1 in Singles & Dating

I had not talked to my X-gal for a couple of months. She told me that she still thinks about me and when on to explain what I did wrong and what she wants in a man. what should I make of this?

2006-11-10 04:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Singles & Dating