I am talking to this guy, and I added him to my address book. When I did I typed the wrong name. Because he is a new friend I have not really had to call him by his name. Last night I decided to send him an email and I called him the wrong name twice. It was a mistake and I sent him an email saying sorry. The thing is I have slept with this guy while thinking the whole time his name was something else based on what I typed in my address book.
Do you think I hurt his feelings? The guy's name that I called him I did not sleep with that guy nor do I even know a guy named that. I don't even know where I got the name from that I called him. Also I will add that when we slept together he got performance anxiety so I don't know if I have added salt to the wound or not, and no I did not call any names when we slept together. This was really a mistake. This guy is just suppose to be a booty call, but he speaks to me everyday. Tell me what you think. What have I done if anything.
2006-11-10 04:08:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I met this guy online with a few other guys, but he is the only one I slept with so maybe I got the name confused with someone I was just talking on the phone with, but if he is a booty call “on my end” does it even matter. I don’t know what I am for him since he may it his business to speak to me everyday. Also if I have to fix this besides saying sorry how do I do it.
2006-11-10 04:08:28 · update #1
Wow, would it hurt your feelings if you slept with someone a couple of times and found out that all along he thought your name was Jessie and it is actually Sarah. I hope that you did not call out the wrong name during sex because if you did that is definitely the deal breaker you can forget about it. It is obvious to me that he is supposed to be a booty call considering you do not even know his name, I hope that he sees it that way. Well all I have to say is make sure that you know the names of the people that you are dealing with and keep the names straight next time. Once again how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot? That more than likely is the answer to your question about how he feels. Anyway, the damage is done so call him and tell him that you do apologize once again and that you would like to continue seeing him if that is all right with him.
2006-11-10 04:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's just a booty call, why do you care if you hurt his feelings or not? is it a booty call if he's not "up" for the challenge because of performance anxiety? I'd say you're only mistake is having this guy as your "booty call" ,whatever his name is
2006-11-10 04:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real bad! You say he's just a booty call, but by calling him the wrong name, you knocked him down even lower!
2006-11-10 04:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You slept with some guy and didn't even know him enough to know his right name? WTF? Are you nuts? Want an STD? Sorry but I can't help ya much on this one. Except to say, stop accepting "booty calls"...you have to know what guys think of you, right? I won't call you that b/c I don't know you but, wow.
2006-11-10 04:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by peachy78 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your only intent is to use this guy as a "booty call", what do you care about how he feels? Why start caring about how HE feels now? I don't understand.
2006-11-10 04:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u've slept with a guy TWICE and you don't even know his name? u should try to pay more attention like if ur around other people try to listen to somebody else say his name so u can really know for sure what it is (if u still dont know)
2006-11-10 04:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No biggy, give him another booty call and call him by his real name while your in the mist of things
2006-11-10 04:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh. Huh. That's REALLY bad but hey, dun let it bother you. He was just a booty call.
2006-11-10 04:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy.....this is a good one....you should know someone's name when you sleep with them, and yes it is bad when you have slept with someone and you call them the wrong name....
2006-11-10 04:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by amandamartin49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably think that you sleep with everyone...if you don't even know the names of people you have sex with.
2006-11-10 04:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋