Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

would you rather use a girl or be faithful to her and stay with her?

2006-11-10 04:58:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What we (Men) say & what we really mean...

I'm hungry = I'm hungry
I'm tired = I'm tired
Do you want to go to a movie? = I'd eventually like to have sex with you
Can I take you out to dinner? = I'd eventually like to have sex with you
Would you like to dance? = I'd eventually like to have sex with you
Can I call you sometime? = I'd eventually like to have sex with you
Nice dress! = Nice cleavage!
You look tense, let me give you a massage = I want to fondle you
What's wrong? = What meaningless self-inflicted psycho trauma are you going through now?
You look upset = I guess sex tonight is out of the question
Yes, I love your new hairstyle = I liked it better before
Yes, your haircut looks good = $50 and it doesn't even look different!
I like the first dress you tried on better = Pick any freakin' dress and let's go!

2006-11-10 04:58:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've had at least three dreams about this guy. Mind you me and this guy never had a conservation with this guy i only see him on the road. The first two dreams were happened to be at the same place and the same time. The last dream he gave a friend of mine his number to give to me. I don't have a crush on him alothough i would admit i think he is cute...help please

2006-11-10 04:57:31 · 6 answers · asked by queenzhottie78 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf just aborted for the second time without my knowledge, I'm happy that she did, but I'm also bothered that she doesn't feel the need to discuss it with me. My friends think that I'm the luckiest guy alive. Should I just be grateful that she takes care of problems on her own or should I try to get her to tell me before she makes decisions like that? And if you are against abortion please keep your views to yourself, I won't even bother to read your entire response.

2006-11-10 04:57:05 · 19 answers · asked by Craig R 1 in Family

My ex-boyfriend & I were together for two and a half years. We have an infant (I also have a five-year-old from a previous relationship). While I was pregnant, he began a "friendship" with another woman. His job requires that he travel & live internationally for long periods of time. The distance was hard. The other woman knew we were together & had a baby. While pretending to be vying for his best interest, she made every effort to get him to commit to her. I do no excuse him, but she is a huge part of our break-up. We have discussed working things out & giving our family a fighting chance. My 2 children & I were supposed to visit him this month where he lives overseas. Instead, he has chosen to take her this month & booked our tickets for next month. He has no idea I'm aware she's going. I suppose he is trying us both on for size. I am keeping my commitment to my family in the forefront. I want to fight for us, but I don't know what's right. Should I go next month? What should I do?

2006-11-10 04:56:51 · 26 answers · asked by forkintheroad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some decent guy told me he likes me. I have had many guys tell me that before but since this is a college i dont want to give a stupid answer. I am not interested in him how do i say a no?

2006-11-10 04:56:15 · 14 answers · asked by Kiran urf msa sis 2 in Singles & Dating

I was born supposedly at Mt Sinai in April of 1970 i later found out i was adopted and am having trouble obtaining my birth record. The certificate i have has allready been amended.

2006-11-10 04:56:15 · 3 answers · asked by Nicky1970 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am scared because it might spread in a rumor and i will get made fun of what do i do?????

2006-11-10 04:56:11 · 7 answers · asked by colin b 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to my boyfriend all week about how my car is getting out of the shop today and how I was planning to see him. I"ve been doing most of the calling this week, so yesterday I decided I wasn't gonna call him and see if he called me. He did in the afternoon. I told him once again my parents were coming home yesterday and they were gonna get my car. He said he had to go but he would call me back (he was helping his sister with her baby). He did and we talked for a couple more mins and the he said he had to go again (the doctor had come in to see the baby). I called him last night so that I could get plans confirmed with him about today so I wouldn't have to worry about them today. He said he had just finished eating and he would call me back again. I just said its ok I'll just call you tomorrow. So I have called a couple times this morning to talk to him and no answer. I really don't wanna call again. So this afternoon, if he doesn't call, should I just go over there or no?

2006-11-10 04:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont understand how it is possible to get out of a good 2 year relationship and be dating someone else 2 weeks later . . . we broke up for no reason because she "wanted to date around" and was dating basically the first guy that showed interest 2 weeks later . . . .they are still together now but she has been calling/texting/emailing me every 1,2,3 weeks atleast but i have not answered anything from her since june and she is still doing it . . . . is this guy a rebound? and what is going on, why is she trying to contact me like this?

2006-11-10 04:54:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 04:54:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 33 and have lived with my Mom for 10 years. I had to drop out of college because of severe depression and emotional problems. I also have battled addiction since then. I met a guy 6 years ago and he moved in within a month with my Mom and I. We were in love and he was working and contributing a little. I have worked off and on but for the most part, my Mom has supported me. She is just a teacher so she doesn't make alot of money. My parents used to be wealthy before they split and we still live in a large home. I think my bf still thinks my Mom has money so now he doesn't pay anything! He won't even help out around the house. He eats all the food my Mom buys and is very disrespectful. I don't have any friends but him and am still very depressed. I know if I asked him to move out, I might lose him. My Mom is 67 and she is a good person and has alot on her plate dealing with me let alone my bf. My bf works but blows all his money. I don't want to be alone. Advice?

2006-11-10 04:54:28 · 22 answers · asked by SHELTIELUVER 3 in Singles & Dating

I have had this qeustion before so please dont delete it but i wanna know does sex really hurt a lot the first time? cuz thats what my friends tell me and im afraid to get close to any guy because im afraid of how bad it will hurt. please help me cuz i am like freaking out about this. does it hurt really bad? and do u bleed?

2006-11-10 04:54:02 · 20 answers · asked by aprildarcie 2 in Singles & Dating

it's weird, before when i was single, it seemed like i got no attention from girls. but now that i have a girlfriend i've had several girls flirting with me. anyone else noticed this?

2006-11-10 04:53:56 · 8 answers · asked by jugglaman 4 in Singles & Dating

my mom has always lied to me when i was growing up. the sad part is, shr doesnt know that i catch her in her own lies. as i was growing up, i'd ask her things about herself like why her eyes were green and mine and das were brown shed say ''just genetics hon''
and then i later grew to find out she wears contacts and her eyes are infact brown. she still claims them to be her eye color. she wears them everywaking minute.. shes also been the same age now for about 6 years when i ask her. shes never home, always oyt with friends.
wy is she so fake.........

2006-11-10 04:53:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-10 04:53:09 · 12 answers · asked by Drey 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do?
i knew this girl a long time, and we are getting married, and suddenly i found that she was living with 3 guys! the first one for 6 months, second one for 1.5 years and third one 3 years!
and of course count the number of time she had sex with them, specially that she was living with them!
while i only had sex once before her!
what should i do?!

2006-11-10 04:52:19 · 16 answers · asked by csimax007 4 in Singles & Dating

what can i buy for a 15 year old teen on her birthday? and what can i also buy her for a joke?

2006-11-10 04:51:44 · 2 answers · asked by Kcam 2 in Friends

my wife's best friend and i both admitted to eachother that we are attracted to eachother and now i cant get her out of my mind.Plus I really dont think im in love with my wife anymore.I am totally torn and dont know what to do.

2006-11-10 04:51:30 · 15 answers · asked by john J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know i will get a girl one day but i dont want it to be a compromise, can a girl genuinely love a 5'7'' tall guy???

2006-11-10 04:50:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mkayy so there's a boy and we both like each other and the problem is I'm not allowed to have a BF. There was this boy last year that I liked a wholeeee lottt but I was able to say no but this one..I just cant and I'm afraid if he asked me out or asked for my number I would be like "uhhh" and I never liked someone as much as I like him. What if he does ask me out ORRR my number. What do I say???

2006-11-10 04:50:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 04:49:33 · 26 answers · asked by benedictaeleanor k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and i said that me and my boyfriend and i wanna be alone i only said it because i was mad at her but i didnt mean it so i wanted to ask do you think that my boyfriend will break up with me because i said that to her?

2006-11-10 04:49:29 · 6 answers · asked by Annie79513 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are raising our grandson.. He is 16 years old ..just got his driver license.. his insurance is over 700.00 for 6 months plus his gas money and fun money every weekend.. i think he should have to get a part time job and share in the responsiblity
instead of having everything. cell phone fun money gas money;..
my husband says he has his whole life to work. let him enjoy it while he can..what do you think

2006-11-10 04:49:13 · 29 answers · asked by vicki f 2 in Family

i am in school i need help plzzz

2006-11-10 04:48:58 · 14 answers · asked by colin b 1 in Singles & Dating

Should such punishment should be reserved for adults who misbehave?

2006-11-10 04:48:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Doesn't it seem weird to you that the parents who come here for advice on child behavioral problems are spending so much time on their computers?

2006-11-10 04:48:07 · 10 answers · asked by blazenphoenix 4 in Family

2006-11-10 04:48:03 · 4 answers · asked by dannni 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

should THEY not teach us about our differences in school? I always assumed woman were the same as us men but just emotionally wild, preffered playing with dollies for some reason, prone to crying and much much prettier then us!

And now i hear that we are actually wired quite differently!!!!!!! wtf!!!

2006-11-10 04:48:03 · 5 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

ive been trying to figure out why it tends to be bigger women i see shopping barefooted.

2006-11-10 04:47:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating