Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

I've met this guy over the internet on Ehormony.com about 5 months ago. we really clicked..... He's so amazing & we have so much in common. Our personalities go great together....My problem is that he's a marine....& yes he's on the other side of the world fighting for our freedom. Him & I have never met face to face. My feelings for him are very strong. i haven't spoken with him since October 13th. I really do love him.....On the other hand My first love asked me out on a date for tonight. He just moved back from Virginia...i do like him to, but my heart is with the other guy. I broke my first loves heart before...How can I tell him no without hurting his feelings...I broke his heart before....I do have feelings for him but I think that it's more like a friend thing............HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-10 04:47:45 · 5 answers · asked by Candice D 1 in Singles & Dating

i don have any good answers to see if my crush likes me back! HELP!

2006-11-10 04:47:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any ideas, wht should i say?

2006-11-10 04:47:07 · 12 answers · asked by MiseryBusiness 1 in Singles & Dating

so i was thinking of getting back with my ex , my friend well ex friend started a huge rumor that i slept with hm when i didn't.Now i just recently saw my ex and noticed that there is still alot of feelings. so should i take the chance hes a good guy too .

2006-11-10 04:46:56 · 4 answers · asked by ashley_davis957 2 in Singles & Dating

last night i went to the movies with the french club that im in and the guy i like is in it too.
he has been flirting with me and we sat beside each other.
i have perifial vision and it seemed to me he kept looking at me(we were sitting beside each other)and he talked to me the whole time (i also am like in love with animals...which goes witht he next thing)it looked like they were going hunting in the movie and i covered my eyes and he pulled my arm down and was like its ok they arent going to kill anything....aww...it was great!

so he is in one of my classes and he was in my class last year (but we didnt talk then) and now he sits right behind me and he is always poking me on my back with his pencil(he knows it tickles me(i am very tickalish)needless to say)) and he will always call me over to him and always asking me stupid questions
he also picks on me and ill act like im sad(and i sort of really am)and then he will say im sorry i really
but idk wat to think!does he like me?

2006-11-10 04:46:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am planning my weddign and i have been to so many and they are all differnet, does anyone no the order on a wedding, like when do we do the unilty candles, and vows and when do they toss the bird seed whenever we leave the church or when we leave the recpition?

2006-11-10 04:46:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-10 04:45:59 · 17 answers · asked by kaitlyn w 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been living in and out of my car for about 3 weeks now. I am a fulltime college student and not currently working. I am 21 years old and the reason why I am homeless is well is my fault so there should be no excuse well this is what happened. I was going to college full-time and also going to work full-time working 3 rd shift it was very hard I would get home from work and bacisually have to go straight to school. and then after school I got home and slept for about 4 hours then went to work it was not a life no time to go out or anything and when I was not going to school which was sat. sun. I got caught up on sleep well anyway I left home to live on my own about 6 months ago because my parant where phsically and emotionally abusive to me. They both do drugs I could not countine to live there when my dad threw a coffee cup at me and hit me in the head I was out of course I called the law and he went to jail, now I go over to visit and he will not let me come in to speak to mom

2006-11-10 04:45:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He is in Iraq for the 4th time and he married before during the same circumstances. It seems like a pattern. IRAQ-Marriage- IRAQ-wife cheats, empties bank account-Divorce. The same pattern is happening now. I dont wanna be part of this one. I told him I would go in an email just because he's in the middle of the war and I don't wanna put his spirits down. I really don't wanna go.

2006-11-10 04:45:48 · 37 answers · asked by bumpb4 2 in Weddings

hell with me, I have started this habit since the age of 16 and now i am 30 and the problem is that i feel myself disbalanced. My wife doesn't know that. I know this is terribly awful and that what really gets on me. I've tried to quit many times but i couldn't and i came strongly back. Personally i want to stop cos' i feel really that gets on my behaviours. Guys i hope you understand me!... Especially dearest ladies I'm not a bad man who betrays his wife. And i'm not that kind of people..Please help me!!!!

2006-11-10 04:45:28 · 18 answers · asked by blue-e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need a boyfriend to make him first be my friend and then our first kiss we love each other and we get married but i can't find one i need a way to find one but how ?

rebecca

2006-11-10 04:44:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is a guy, who had a major crush on me, he was very smart but was not the kind of person i wish to have, whenever he wanted to talk to me i wwas damn harsh tyo him. he tolerated all that for a very long time, but when i was over the limits, (means i use to ignore him like anything). now, even he could not tolerate it , so he left me but now i am feeling bad and want to get him back and even now that gie has a crush on me (that's for sure) but i dont know that how to get him back, pleeeezz give some ideas.

2006-11-10 04:44:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was talking with this girl I know pretty good. And i wanted so much to tell her how I felt about her. We talked like best friends, about her life and mine, she said don't hurry into a relationship that it will just happen and I agreed with her. The thing is I want to tell her how I fell but don't want to lose our friendship for nothing in the world

2006-11-10 04:43:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy broke up with me and left my life, i dint even know what was happening..
i miss him like crazy and would do anything to have him back in my life.
when i try to approach him , he brushes me off n treats me in a weird manner..
help..

2006-11-10 04:43:31 · 10 answers · asked by anamika 2 in Singles & Dating

There r two very cute guys that I like, but i don't know wich to choose. one is very popular but nice and the other one isnt very popular and still nice. i have never been involved with anyone before and i have nothing to gain by only going out wiht popular boys. what should i do?

2006-11-10 04:43:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 04:43:06 · 18 answers · asked by ms attitude 2 in Marriage & Divorce

On how soon you fall in love? Is there such a thing as to soon for being in love? Real answers please!

2006-11-10 04:42:49 · 7 answers · asked by happy_cute_mom 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 04:42:42 · 8 answers · asked by moi 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, this is the deal, there is this girl at work, she is older that me by 8 years, so she is 30 and im 22. she used to have a boyfriend back where she is from (we are both from the same country) but according to her, she doent love him anymore, but the people that knows that i like her, tell me that she still likes him. the issue is that lately i have notice that she has been a little "cold" with me, like i did something wrong to her, which i havent, and with everyone else she is all hugs and "nice". so what do i do? does she likes me? or she knows that i like her and she is pushing me away??

2006-11-10 04:41:30 · 24 answers · asked by angelslide88 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 04:40:48 · 8 answers · asked by dodgergirl 2 in Singles & Dating

oh well my bf and i have a great relationship. you ppl know that everybody gets to feel jealous sometimes. Oh well my bf and i respect our worlds each other. i mean that he can go out with his friend and me with my friends. i mean NOT drama relationship. but this time i told him " oh babe just right now 3 guys asked me to go out, and i just answered to them "o h yeah with my bf too ok?" . my answer was a totally NO cuz i love my bf and i would never cheat on him. w**?? i mean ppl doesnt respect im great with him and still liek that keep asking to go out. now my bf got for some reason a little bit mad but not at me cuz i asked him why he stayed quite and he said that he was just busy with some work, which knowing him so well i know he got jealous.

am i true about what i think about jealousy? does he reaction is a normal feeling???

2006-11-10 04:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Singles & Dating

the guy you are going out with says you remind him of his mother

2006-11-10 04:40:26 · 7 answers · asked by hotdn 1 in Friends

i like my ex-bf.He used to say he likes me but at that time i didn't have feelings for him anymore.So i said we should just be freinds.But i know he still likes me.Until recently,after we met,i told him that i think i like him too.But he didn't say anything but tells me about his past love life.And now i'm not sure if he likes me or not.But he msgs me and sees me all the time.

2006-11-10 04:39:26 · 12 answers · asked by KOKO 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so my bf will be moving back in soon and I really dont feel like dealing with his mother. Before my bf moved out, me and his mom would always be around each other. I mean, we went to the laundrymat every weekend and i only went to wash my clothes right???

But all she does is rant and rave about how her son is this and that, negative ways those. She never has one good thing to say about anyone becuz she is sad and lonely. Well, i mean she is annoying and puts me in a bad mood. When he moves back in i really dont want this to erupt again.

The thing is, my bf told me that he wants me to stop keeping everything built up inside and let him know what i am thinking all the time. I do that and tell him how i feel about his mother and his family and he gets all upset. Should i just keep my feelings built up like before, or just tell him regardless how he feels about it?

Let me know ppl, i really am confused on what to do...

2006-11-10 04:38:33 · 5 answers · asked by yagurlbubblez 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm actually a woman not a man, I couldn't register this properly.
Do men sometimes make up stuff or lie to make things easier for themselves to get rid of a woman?

2006-11-10 04:38:32 · 35 answers · asked by Peter W 1 in Singles & Dating

Smart, Long brunett hair, knows how to kick *** and a nice prosenalty, quite sometimes, knows how to party, sweet but spicy!

2006-11-10 04:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by jazzy108 1 in Singles & Dating

Falling Angel, Broken Wings

i guess they could never call me an angel
And I never had wings that would grow
But these burdens they place on my back
Have taken me down to the bottom

Always wanted to be good and do the things I should
But I never quite came close
I was the black sheep, every familY has to have one
And I was the black sheep of mine

Tried so hard to make it happen
But hopes don't make dreams come true
I got all tangled at the bottom
And never made it to the top

Fallen angels, broken wings
If I could have been an angel, would I have failed there too
More than likely, for my chances were not good
Never made it to the surface and I never left t he ground

All the rest have wonderful traits
Always doing what they should
But I ran into trouble and could not stop my fall
Falling faster, falling to the ground

I guess I hurt a lot of people in this life I've lead
Never meant to do it on purpose
But I did it all the same
And I lost everythin

2006-11-10 04:37:12 · 3 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Family

2006-11-10 04:36:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you link your friends from the greastest to least

2006-11-10 04:36:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My current boyfriend is having dinner with his ex-girlfriend tonight. He mention to me she was going to be around the area and she was wondering if they can see each other for dinner. The true is that his ex-girlfriend is getting married but while she was with her fiancee she was screwing my boyfriend as well, before i got with him. I trust him, but i don't trust her at all. I spoke to him about how i felt about the whole situation, which i told him that she should just back off for a while until him and i establish a stronger relationship. I believe if she had no respect for her previous fiancee why will she have respect for our relation. I want to have an open realtionship that we can both be honest with each other, but for some reason i still feel she has a hold on him. Do you think is right for me to feel this way? or I'm I just being paranoid? I know a thing or two about there past just because he was my friend before we got together 3 months ago. please help?

2006-11-10 04:36:35 · 13 answers · asked by Tati 1 in Singles & Dating