2006-11-10 04:36:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dude your right as a big brother is to give a very bad beat down !
2006-11-10 04:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by 32606 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah really this boyfriend needs be beaten down. These kids are only thirteen and have their whole lives ahead of them. You must talk to him and tell him about the consequences of have sex while still just a teenager. I am 26 years old and wasn't ready to have a baby. You have to fill them in on these things a an older sibbiling. Also having sex does not mean you love someone
2006-11-10 04:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is this guy? If he is over 16 call the cops. The fact that she is telling you this is a good sign, she is still willing and open to talk to you. Be willing and honest and open w/ her. tell her what your expectations area nd the risks of "giving it". make sure she knows that if he loved her he wouldn't be asking her to do this. If she is still interested in doing it either go to your parents or get her to the health dept, or planned parenthood. She can get on birth control w/o your parents concent. Most states any teenager can see a doctor about sexual issues w/o parental concent.
2006-11-10 04:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by tera_duke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to ask him what he loves. If he cannot respect her, then he does NOT love her. I grew up wanting to keep myself for the one I was going to marry. I was a month away from turning 21 before I had my first sexual encounter and that was with my wife. I never regreted keeping myself, it is one of the greatest accomplishments that I have had and this is why..... everyone else I ever knew who engaged in sexual relationships with someone never kept their friendship and when they see each other in public avoid each other. I have had girls thank me because they did want to have sex with me and I chose not to. They now appreciate that because they do not feel threatened to talk to me and has helped me keep a many of friends because of MY actions. If he cannot respect her sexuallity then he truely does not love her. Tell her it's time to ditch. GL !!!... this subject is so hard now adays. additional and KUDOS to TA... who is absolutely right !!!
2006-11-10 04:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by ludwigkicker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her first. Let her know the risks and how wrong a guy like that is for her. If that doesnt work - tell the parents ASAP.
Oh dont be nice to the guy - let him know you dont like him AT ALL! A little intimidation will work.
2006-11-10 04:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Trini Trixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell him that if he loved her he would stop asking. Also tell her to wait cause her first time should be special and it won't be anywhere near as special as if she were to wait and do it once she's a lot older. One more thing, tell her that doing won't change anything- if anything were to happen it would be confusion and pain. Wait Wait Wait
2006-11-10 04:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to get in her pants. Tell her wait, she's way too young to have sex. She will regret it when she's older. She needs to tell her boyfriend to back off, and if he loves her when she tells him to wait he will respect her. If he doesn't wait then he wasn't worth it anyway..... that's how she will know if he truely cares for her
2006-11-10 04:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by summer ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your parents involved before your little sister becomes a Mommy .
2006-11-10 04:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would remind her of her age and that she has a mind of her own, do not let some little horndog make it up for her. Also, is she ready to be a parent?
2006-11-10 04:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let your sister know that if he is pressuring her at such a young age he isn't right for her...or u could be a brother and demand her not to see him and just tell the boy to leave your sister alone unless u will kick his ***.
2006-11-10 04:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by Honey Eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋