there is a guy, who had a major crush on me, he was very smart but was not the kind of person i wish to have, whenever he wanted to talk to me i wwas damn harsh tyo him. he tolerated all that for a very long time, but when i was over the limits, (means i use to ignore him like anything). now, even he could not tolerate it , so he left me but now i am feeling bad and want to get him back and even now that gie has a crush on me (that's for sure) but i dont know that how to get him back, pleeeezz give some ideas.
2006-11-10 04:44:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Niceness is sexy
2006-11-10 04:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to him and ask for his forgiveness. That's all you can do and assure him you wont do it again. Its up to him if he wants to take you back though. Be nice and do something with him if he is willing that will take you down memory lane and remember all the good times you shared. Make a dinner for him, take him somewhere that is really special between the 2 of you and show him and tell him how bad you feel and how sorry you are and how you would like him back. Make sure you assure him this time isn't going to be like last time and work hard to make sure you don't treat him the same as you did in the past. Hope this helps. Need someone to talk to you can email me. Hope everything works out.
2006-11-10 13:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurting someone is perhaps the best way to get on the wrong side of someone.i suggest that you put urself in his place.you must have really hurt because nothing hurts more than when he person you like or love is rude to you.what would you want to have done in such a case?i think you must start of by showing him a lot of respect and apologizing to him for being so rude to him.this you can only do by showing him that how bad you feel about yourself.if your feelings are genuine then they will show.make him feel like a respected man in your life by complimenting him.acknowledging him and by being the nicest person on earth to him.start involving him in your life and make him feel imp but do not potray yourself as needy!thats the balance you need to strike!i wish you all the best and hpope you are do whatever is good for both of you!
2006-11-10 13:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets be honest you liked all the attention he gave you. but now that he's gone you want it back. so my ? is if he comes back and get under your skin will you treat him the same? i would tell him your true feelings that you like him as a friend not romantic in anyway you want to be friends and the way you acted was immature and wrong and your sorry for that.
2006-11-10 13:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by NDmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you alwayz want something more you can't have that is part of what you are feeling you took for granit that he was tehre and he would alwayz be there, if i was him i would prob never forgive you, maybe still talk to you but never treat you like he once did, but you just need to well before i answer do you want to be freinds or more you need to apoligize and do something to show him how sorry you are
2006-11-10 12:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start smiling to him as a starter. Then say hi or hello, how are you? If he approaches you then be more amiable now and don't blow it. You may never get a second chance again.
2006-11-10 16:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to be rude. but wen u say something and u think its rude u can't take it back.. but try saying sorry, maybe he'll understand.
2006-11-10 13:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley Varghese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to him and say SORRY.If he is really interested in you, he will come back to you.
2006-11-10 12:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say your sorry.
2006-11-10 12:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋