oh well my bf and i have a great relationship. you ppl know that everybody gets to feel jealous sometimes. Oh well my bf and i respect our worlds each other. i mean that he can go out with his friend and me with my friends. i mean NOT drama relationship. but this time i told him " oh babe just right now 3 guys asked me to go out, and i just answered to them "o h yeah with my bf too ok?" . my answer was a totally NO cuz i love my bf and i would never cheat on him. w**?? i mean ppl doesnt respect im great with him and still liek that keep asking to go out. now my bf got for some reason a little bit mad but not at me cuz i asked him why he stayed quite and he said that he was just busy with some work, which knowing him so well i know he got jealous.
am i true about what i think about jealousy? does he reaction is a normal feeling???
2006-11-10 04:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as I have learned in life..each and EVERY female gets hit on basically CONSTANTLY all day long from all angles from all side...
and they learn to just take it all in as a normal day, and they do not run home and tell daddy, or boyfriend or hubby, unless one or tow of these guys who are hitting on t hem cause some type of problem and you nee it to stop...other than that..learn to keep a lot of stuff to yourself..it is better for you..it is much better for your guy
really it is...
good luck
smile
2006-11-10 06:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK once if deciphered what you were saying and pieced it together I think what happened was... you know that your bf has a tendency to get jealous but you still thought it was a good idea to tell him that 3 guys asked you out....then you wondered what was wrong because he got so quiet...well maybe to stop that reaction you should not start that problem. You know that your bf is jealous so why even tell him useless information unless of course you are trying to prove to him that you are still wanted by all these guys. Or maybe you are trying to make him feel more secure by telling him (knowing he is jealous) that these guys are trying to talk to you and you do not give them the time of day. But that is not a good idea, if you were insecure about something would you like someone to continue to bring it up.
2006-11-10 12:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your intentions when you told your boyfriend that 3 guys asked you out, was not received by your BF in the manner you had hoped. When you shared your response :, "oh yeah with my boyfriend too? You had hoped your Boyfriend would hear that you basically said No to these guys...But that's not what he heard . He heard you, almost being boastful that 3 guys asked you out...3 guys were trying to steal you away form him when he wasn't there to protect his interests...Y-O-U-! I don't think he was feeling jealous he's probably mature enough to know that other guys are going to find you attractive and possibly try to hit on you. Just like when other girls try to hit on him and you're not around. Does he tell you about all those times??? Probably not because he never gives into their come- ons and he wouldn't think of mentioning it to you. Why would he want you to get upset over nothing? You on the other hand seem not to be sensitive to him in the same regard....ASK YOURSELF this what good would it do for him to know this??? Why upset his day? Your best bet is to leave out those details of your day where some other man boosts your confidence and compliments your ego by trying to pick you up/ make a move on you. Save the details of your time apart just embrace him with gladness that he still wants to call you his....believe me he has temptations that he faces everyday also. But he spares you feelings of worry & concern by not mentioning it for good reason.
2006-11-10 12:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jealousy can mean so many different things. it can either mean he doesn't trust you, or he doesn't want to lose you, or lots of things. my ex got super jealous over me talking to one of his friends WHEN HE LEFT the bar we were hanging out in. what was i supposed to do? he then broke up with me 2 weeks later. different people have different reactions toward jealousy. maybe your bf didn't want to start a figut. it sounds like he trusts you, either that or he's self-conscious cuz all these guys want to go out with you.
2006-11-10 12:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by fiorie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be i mean maybe he thinks that one of these day you will say yes to a guy that asks you out but talk to him about it and tell him you love him and won't ever cheat or anything
2006-11-10 12:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Shortie<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys know that their girls are going to get hit on from time to time...or all the damn time...its not a matter of your guy not trusting you or even being mad at you but NO guy likes it and its generally a good idea to keep it to yourself. Out of sight out of mind.
2006-11-10 13:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Dark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you tell your boyfriend that three guys asked you out unless you are playing head games with him or you are trying to get hime jealous. You don't have to share everything with your man you know. if you have a trusting monogamous relationship why bother stirring the pot for?
2006-11-10 12:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
now why on earth would u TELL your b/f that three guys wanted to go out with u
use your brains
he doesn't need to hear that even if it is true
learn to know what to say and what not
u set yourself up for that one
he needs to hear that HE is the most important thing to u--he doesn't need to hear about other guys
2006-11-10 12:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He certainly is jealous. Don't blame him if he loves you!
He is also very lucky to have you, But just perhaps you could have spared his feelings and not told him about it?
2006-11-10 12:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by steven b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you said yes to someone else...and asked if you could bring your bf...it sounds kinda weird..
2006-11-10 14:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋