There r two very cute guys that I like, but i don't know wich to choose. one is very popular but nice and the other one isnt very popular and still nice. i have never been involved with anyone before and i have nothing to gain by only going out wiht popular boys. what should i do?
2006-11-10 04:43:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out with the one you like best. The rest doesn't matter. Popularity, as I have said before, is overrated. Follow your heart and it will lead you on the right path.
2006-11-10 04:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart. Look at their differences and what you dislike about each. Make a list. Then pick from there. Are you popular? Then date the popular guy. Are you unpopular? Then date the unpopular guy. Never date someone for their status or looks. That can always change.
2006-11-10 12:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was stuck in this boat myself a few years ago. I got serious with the non popular guy. Though I still don't know what the popular guy would have been like he was nice and always really helpful to me. Sometimes I still wonder if he'd have treated me better.
Hind sight is better than foresight. Talk to both of them and hopefully they don't wrestle and punch either down... like it happened for me.. but tell them both look I am gonna go out with you one night... you don't come around please don't spy just let me figure out which one of you I want to date. Though it isn't always this easy... I know. I guess really thikn about which one has better good qualities and what are teh poor things. If bad out weighs good... then which ever one scores the highest.
2006-11-10 12:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should choose the one whom you feel would be not only a good friend but also has the potential to be something more. After this, if still undecided make a list (for both guys) of what you like most about them and what you like least. Make sure to take your time and be honest with yourself. Good luck and best wishes, may the best guy win.
2006-11-10 12:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, your should ask their friends if either of them likes you, that would be a good way to start. If one of them likes you, then tell their friends to to tell the boy you like to ask you out. I think thats good that you say you have nothing to gain by going out with popular boys, that shows that your not shallow. If both boys like you, look inside yourself to find out which boy you really care about more. If neither of them like you, just move on. Their are plently of other single people. Good luck with you relationships!!!
2006-11-10 12:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Nick C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the on you like more or if you can't figure it out then see who is better with your friends they figure everything but i would go wit the not that popular
2006-11-10 12:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by Shortie<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 the no popular guy.
2006-11-10 12:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by CHIKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible to date both until you find out which one you have a better connection with?
2006-11-10 12:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzyfoot1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the guy who popular. good luck
2006-11-10 13:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the one who is most like you...are they both pursruing you so theres a real choice? Let them pursue you....pick the best personality....i go by gut instinct and intuition and then theres love
2006-11-10 12:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋