I was talking with this girl I know pretty good. And i wanted so much to tell her how I felt about her. We talked like best friends, about her life and mine, she said don't hurry into a relationship that it will just happen and I agreed with her. The thing is I want to tell her how I fell but don't want to lose our friendship for nothing in the world
2006-11-10 04:43:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is a good situation to be in. i had the same thing happen to me only we rushed into a relationship and now we are not together anymore. do not lose the friendship it is the only thing that would make the relationship work.
2006-11-10 04:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by fiorie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing the friendship is somEthing you chance if you tell her. You may still have a freindship with her but it wont feel the same but then if you don't tell her then you chance not knowing at all. the best you can do is to just go with your heart on this. You could try to read her signs but you may just get mixed messages. In life the only way to learn is to take a chance.
2006-11-10 12:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. Telling a friend you feel more than friendship for them always comes with the risk that if things don't work out we lose the friendship but you need to decide for yourself is thats a chance you're willing to take because sometimes we have to take chances in life to go for the things we really want. Look just go for it and see where things go, for all you know she feels the same way about you. If things don't work out you guys can always remain friends, believe me its possible. Good luck
2006-11-10 12:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by dsd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing you can do is not tell her. In this life, you have to take chances to get what you want/need. Nothing good ever came out of just sitting still and doing nothing. You two can talk freely and openly, so I think you should talk to her about it. Let her know how you feel, but also remind her that you aren't looking to move too fast either. You can start slowly.
2006-11-10 12:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well weigh the pros and the cons...are you willing to risk your friendship to see how it goes? But on the other hand the best relationships are with your best friend the one you can tell anything to. Write her a letter so that way you dont have to be around when she reads it and you want get her first reaction just in case you are scared. The note signifies that you really care especially if you are not a pen and paer person.
2006-11-10 12:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you like her nothing is actually gonna happen. And dont be afraid of being rejected because if u are then u wont say the right words or do the right actions.
2006-11-10 12:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like her u should take the chance of asking her whats the worst that can happen...or if u are too scared u should just let it happen like she said...
2006-11-10 12:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by Honey Eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we have to take chances in life to get what we want, if you dont you will regret it. and if its meant to be then it will. Good Luck
2006-11-10 12:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to make a choice. be silent or take a chance and have the women
2006-11-10 12:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by â?¥ Pawya! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE AFRAID. JUST TELL HER. BECAUSE IF ANYTHING WERE TO HAPPEN TO HER TOMORROW, YOU WILL WISH YOU TOLD HER.
2006-11-10 12:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋