mkayy so there's a boy and we both like each other and the problem is I'm not allowed to have a BF. There was this boy last year that I liked a wholeeee lottt but I was able to say no but this one..I just cant and I'm afraid if he asked me out or asked for my number I would be like "uhhh" and I never liked someone as much as I like him. What if he does ask me out ORRR my number. What do I say???
2006-11-10 04:50:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ohhhhh and if I give him my # then he calls my parents are gonna start askin questions and they might yell at him on the phone omggg that would crazyyy
2006-11-10 04:54:58 · update #1
just be open & HONEST!
if you can't date yet-let him know it.....that way he's not thinking its him
2006-11-10 04:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices.
1) You can respect your parents wishes and move on.
2) You can go against what your parents think is best for you and date him.
It's gonna make you feel bad both ways. If you really like the guy I'd say go for it. If you think you have the power to tell him
"Sorry I can't date till I'm...16." then thats awesome. Who knows? He may just respect you for being honest with him and respecting what your parents want for you. Maybe you can explain to your parents that you can just have him for a boyfriend, not actually go on a date or anything. That might make them feel better and it might make you feel better as well. If they say no, then just be honest with the guy! You'll know that he's a really great guy when he understands you aren't allowed to. My best friend was in this same situation last year. I told her to go out with the guy and she did but she felt bad sneaking around her parents and her brother who went to the same school so she broke up with him and turned down all the other guys that asked her. Good Luck.
2006-11-10 04:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it's okay to like boys it's just that your mother may feel it's too much for you to start dating. If he asks for your phone number tell him you really would like to, but unforunately your unable to date at the time. Also that you would still like to be his friend. Trust me he may find another girl that can or that is dating , but he will always respect you more. Besides if it was meant to be you'll meet him again in the future when you can date and maybe by then he will have all the play out of his system and will be ready for a serious relationship with you. Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!!!!
2006-11-10 04:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 00:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be preemptive. Talk to your parents, probably mom if you're close to her, and explain that you REALLY like this boy and you've liked other boys and respected their wishes but you feel stronger about him. Ask them if it would be okay if you started to see him, (if he asks if you're too shy to ask him) and the two of you could have at least your first couple of dates around your parents.
IE watching movies at your house, can go puttputting and your parents can play a game together and you and your boy can play a game. That way you and your boy are getting time together and your parents can watch and know you're okay.'
Being honest and mature goes a long way with parents
2006-11-10 04:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him youd love to go out with him but you cant because your not allowed to yet but you will talk to your parents about it. tell him that you can hang with him at school or wherever you see him for now and tell him when you get home youll talk to your parents about it. do the same thing about giving him your phone number.
if you wanna go against what your parents say then tell him your not allowed but if he gives you his number youll call him when your at a friends house or when your parents arent home. if your allowed to go out with friends then plan like a group thing with him and some of your and his friends. then when you go out just stay with him.
but if hes a nice understanding guy and if you really love him you shouldnt really have a problem being honest with him and telling him that your not allowed yet.
talk to your parents about it and tell them that you really like this guy and you promise you will be responsible with him and all. just say what they wanna hear basically
2006-11-10 04:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lf you aree trying to go out tell you mom youre spending a night over a girlfriends house If he ask for you number say I cant give you that but ill take yours remeber to call private so he wont call your house back.
2006-11-10 04:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give him your number. because then, he'd be calling you all the time and then your parents will suspect something. but sure you can get away with going out with a guy w/o your parents finding out.
2006-11-10 04:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by 7yler Stone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your just really horny, you should calm down and listen to your folks, dateing and exp. things isnt all its cracked up to be, for something good that happens from it, their is ALWAZ something bad.
Take your time, and wait; your parents know best, remember they have been through it already.....
-James
2006-11-10 04:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you can only be a regular firend and thats the way it is and if he like u enough he will respect you for it
2006-11-10 04:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Bud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋