I recently told my (boy) mate that my feelings for him stretched beyond those of a friend. He said it was ok and hugged me, he has been acting no different than before and neither have I. I don't know what hes feelin or how to handle it, pls help me...
2006-11-10 04:06:08 · 12 answers · asked by supastar_666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's the only one that truly knows how he feels, so the best person to ask would be him.... It' probably a good sign that when you told him how you felt, he didn't take off running or disappear off the face of the earth.. so it's a good chance his feelings are similar to your own... Besides, if you are developing strong feelings for him, it's better to be direct with him and find out where he stands rather than wait for him to get around to telling you...
2006-11-10 04:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him. The thing is what would you like to see come of this and would you be able to take rejection if he should not want the same thing. Also you need to think of it in terms of your friendship as well, are these feeling worth potentially ruining a friendship? Take some time to think things through and then make your next move do not rush, this is a tough situation to be in and I hope that things work out for you in the end.
2006-11-10 04:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes you just as a friend, and that's why he doesn't talk about this subject, because if he says something you don't like he might think that can lose your friendship. I don't know. It's just a point. But if you're really not sure what he feels, just ask him.
And good luck!
2006-11-10 04:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by Violeta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to spend some alone time with him, ask him out on a super casual date and then ask him if he thinks there could be a future with you two. Good Luck.
2006-11-10 04:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
males are so much more simpler than us girls with messy emotions.
best thing to do is enjoy this friendship cos i'm sure it will develop at a natural speed failing that u can't wait kiss him the lips say it all girl..
2006-11-10 04:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to spend more time together alone. Try it you will be surprise of what turns out.
2006-11-10 04:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by MARYLOU P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only likes you as a friend or else he would have pounced on you by now.
2006-11-10 04:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by Candy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is feeling appreciated but my be a little hesitant to show any difference because he might not understand what your meaning was by that. You might have to express your feelings further
2006-11-10 04:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him on a date and see how it goes.
2006-11-10 04:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take ur time and enjoy being friends
2006-11-10 04:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋