I had not talked to my X-gal for a couple of months. She told me that she still thinks about me and when on to explain what I did wrong and what she wants in a man. what should I make of this?
2006-11-10 04:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she's just venting, or maybe she is hinting that she wants you to be all those things.
2006-11-10 04:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from the looks of it, she wants u back. And she is hinting the problems she sees hoping u will change them 4 her so u can work things out. If u care about her in a way u feel its worth it, then go 4 it if not let things b as they r. Personally, I don't see y she wants u 2 change, u r who u r and if that's not good enough 4 her then she should look elsewhere.
2006-11-10 04:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Gijit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my opinion on this is she might be giving you a hint to try to change. I have done that before with someone that I loved but part of the relationship just wasnt working for us. So i ended it. It depends on what she was wanting from you or someone. there are important things (keeping a job) and not so important things(hair color and clothes) You just have to guage how you feel about her and what you feel you should do.
2006-11-10 04:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by the blue bonnet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seems like to me she is missing you. I think she wants to try it again and is trying to feel you out to see if your feeling the same thing. It's just that this time she wants it to work. Maybe she feels if she gets all the bad out the way before the relationship starts again you both will start out fresh. All the negativity will be over and discussed. The real question here is are you missing her like she's missing you and do you want to try it again? Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!!!!
2006-11-10 04:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you need to ask yourself this question, "do i want to be with her still", and then if you do, maybe she is giving you a hint, maybe she is trying to tell you, that hey you made a mistake, but i still am interested, but then again, you need to think about what did she do wrong in your eyes, also.. it takes 2 to make a relationship....
2006-11-10 04:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by babyatgradys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you still want to be with her, just say youre sorry and whatever she said she saw in a man try to b more like that. and if you dont like then dont worry about it prolly means she still likes you.
2006-11-10 04:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wanted you to be "the one", but you didn't do things exactly like she wanted. She wants you b/c she's familiar with you, but she wants you to change into her "dream guy". I wouldn't talk to her anymore, unless you agree with the things she said
2006-11-10 04:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, she is nothing to you, her opinion is not valid. You should have done the same, and added that you want a less looser gal. Boom, that would teach her.
2006-11-10 04:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She wants you back and by telling you what you did wrong, she is hoping that you will change.
2006-11-10 04:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by SHOE HO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants you back, but only on her terms
2006-11-10 04:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋