I have a boyfriend and a chill friend. I let both touch and see but im still a virgin. I like both a lot and when im alone with each i let them do they thing. If i had to choose who i like the most it would be my chill dude. Should i break up with my man to go with the other one or should i leave things the way they are. My chill dude does know i have a boyfriend and he lets me know he still wants to be with me. What should i do at such a young age. Im 14 my boyfriend is about to be 17 and the other dude is 17 bout to be 18
2006-11-10 04:10:58 · 19 answers · asked by chrisbrownswifey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As someone who was very sexually active at a young age.....PLEASE, PLEASE wait. Your time will come. Please be a kid for a while longer. Sex will come, I'm not saying wait until your married or anything like that. Just wait a couple more years. I wish I were more articulate and could get my thoughts out on this better, just please wait....
2006-11-10 04:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by kardea 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, get your act together. At 14 you don't need to be in that kind of situation. How long do you expect to stay a virgin when you are allowing 2 guys to touch and see. If you are doing this at 14, by the time you are 16, you will have a baby to deal with. Find an adult you trust that you can talk to, please.
2006-11-10 04:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by SHOE HO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young. And they would be raping you and might just end up going to prison and getting raped. You need to focus on your education, what you are going to do when you get out of school (job). Have you thought about the consequences, such as getting pregnant, diseases?? Just a thought you might want to think about. But it could really mess up your life if something was to happen.
2006-11-10 04:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your clothes on and wait till your older, if you haven't noticed they are using you and probably only like you because you let them touch and see. Think about what your doing and the rep you might end up with
2006-11-10 04:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i just have this huge feeling that they are both taking advantage of you and if this chill dude is really a chill dude, he should be showing you loads of respect.
this doesnt make sense girl. where is your sense of respect?
or are you just craving for guys' attention?
sorry to say this but i think they are laughing over drinks, behind your back.
2006-11-10 04:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anna D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If both of them are satisfied it really is all that concerns. it type of appears like a huge age enormous difference once you're in severe college yet in genuine existence that is what, 2 years? it really is not something. tell her to ignore the rude childrens.
2016-11-29 00:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to calm down and not do anythig..if you have to have a bf at least find someone your OWN AGE..forget thew 17 and 18 year old..thats grimey all they want from you is to touch you and take advantage of you..stop..think about things before you do it..but do not have sex!! your too young forget about them..and keep your legs closed
2006-11-10 04:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by alissaxnicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow Up
2006-11-10 04:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by finished 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way too young to be letting 17 yr old guys be touching you. Ditch both of them. You're JAILBAIT!
2006-11-10 04:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a couple of years to live the end of your childhood. Once you're an adult you can't go back! Please don't be in such a big hurry to grow up! ;-)=
2006-11-10 04:14:56 · answer #10 · answered by Jcontrols 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋