Ok the thing is my dad is always raggin on my boyfriend... who is a really good guy that don't try anything with me and he cares for me and not what he can get. well my dad liked this other boyfriend who treated me like crap and everytime we were alone he tried to get in my pants... i'm not like that i'm waiting for the right person. last night me and my father got into a fight because for the last past two weeks we have been fighting... and the last past two weeks i haven't been happy unless i'm at school or talking on the phone with my bf. and i'm getting really depressed and i've cried everynight. two weeks ago was my "sweet 16" b day well give you a little hint of how it went i didn't get to do anything and i didn't get a present from my dad... it seems like i try and make everybody happy and when i do that i'm not happy at all. i don't know what i'm supose to do with a dad that wants me to be perfect and don't like the truth? please some advice!!!
2006-11-10 04:16:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks as if you need to be a little more honest with your dad about the last boyfriend. If he hears what you just told us, I'm sure he will change his mind. Parents love their children and its hard being a parent, harder a lot of times to be the parent than the child, even though, I'm sure, to you right now it feels terrible. We make mistakes but try really hard to do what is best for our children. I'm sure that your Dad Loves you very much and is just as confused about the right thing as you are! Let me tell you from experience, parenting is hard! Your Dad wants the very best for you and is afraid that the wrong things may happen. No matter what he will love you!
You need to sit down and TALK, not yell, with your Dad and you need to really listen to him. Let him know how you feel, I'm sure he will do his very best for you. As long as you have an open communication with him it will be way easier for you both.
2006-11-10 04:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it is hard to please everybody. You are right it is your life and you want to be happy. But you have to understand that your father is just looking out for your best interest. Even though sometimes parents are WRONG. I think that you should really have a serious talk with him. Tell him that you are very happy and that you need to live your own life, make some of your own decisions, whether right or wrong, that is how you learn to deal with life. And I would tell him the way this new guy treats you and how the old boyfriend treated you. Tell him that all he wanted from you was sex and that you thought that it would be better not to be in that situation any longer.
Make him aware that you appreciate his concern and like the fact that you have him there to confide in when you need to, but that you think you are making the right decision and would love to have his support.
2006-11-10 04:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are already feeling disturbed, therefore, if I say that your dad is right then you wont listen to me.
As a matter of fact, he has spent his life in diff. situations, while you are just trying to start.
It is OBLIGATORY to have a bf?
You are a young nice girl, Y dont get back your attention to your studies, get MS degree, or MD, or Phd and prove that you have confidence and capability to do some thing. This game of bf and gf is of very low level activity. Why are you trying to spoil your self thru this game? You must maintain and preserve your dignity, respect, virginity, morality and not to divert to these cheap things.
2006-11-10 04:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant please everybody. You have to do what make you happy within limitations. You need to tell your father about the boy he likes and why you dont like him. Have you told your dad your waiting on sex if you havent you should hell be proud of that. i think you should sit and talk with you dad tell him your feelings, dont yell and keep an open mind. If he starts to yell and get up set, just remind him that your talking to him and youd like him to talk and listen to you.
2006-11-10 04:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by tahdeah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u might wanna sit down with your dad and let him know these things about your ex so he knows why u feel so strongly about your bf. 2nd u should realize that your dad know WAY more about guys and relationships than u do. remember he used to be a teenage boy and probably has alot of insight that u think is all negative.
2006-11-10 04:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like growing pains to me! Be patient, things will get better in time. Continue to be honest with your day; that's really important!
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2016-10-03 12:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋