Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

I am seeing a bloke, and have been for the past few months, but one minute he wants to know me the next minute he dont. I just dont get it. We can go days with out talking to each other. If it was just sex he was after, why does he call me sometimes to ask me to go round his and just cuddle, surely there must be some emotional tie there? I am infactuated with the bloke, (but he does not know this), but he continues to be hot and cold with me, and I always go running back to him.

Please give me some advice on what to do, should I walk away, or is there anything I can do to have something more with him than what seems to be just sex?

2006-11-09 21:47:58 · 7 answers · asked by jd_girl_06 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing a girl for a couple of months now. Well we get on really well together and we are really happy when together. When we initially started seeing each other, we agreed that we were going to continue seeing other people. During this time I kissed a few girls, but nothing more. We then started getting more serious about each other and she has told me that she slept with someone else multiple times since she started seeing me. But she wanted to only be with me. I have had some bad experiences in the past which makes it kinda difficult for me to trust someone. I know I am not that innocent in this scenario. Well she went out to a house party this week. She ended up staying the night in this mans house. I am trying to learn to trust her. So I asked her a number of questions about her night. Like 'did you meet anyone', 'did you kiss anyone'............. She refused to answer them because she said it hurt her that I didn't trust her.It ended up with me arguing with her.

2006-11-09 21:47:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anthon 2 in Singles & Dating

And they r not gay as they surely are attracted by big breasts. Should I just let it go or should i make a stop at it. They are 13.

2006-11-09 21:46:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-09 21:44:06 · 2 answers · asked by mcdheskc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 21:41:39 · 8 answers · asked by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 in Singles & Dating

or isnt out of the closet or is just confused? he hasnt had intercourse with women (or men) -hes 25 and he doesnt like brokeback mountain or anythng like that but he isnt a homophobe either.

2006-11-09 21:39:17 · 15 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3 in Singles & Dating

I have caught my husband in bed with another woman, I am devastated and torn apart...because of his job the house is tied to his job and I have no where to go with my children...what can I do and how can I deal with the hurt?

2006-11-09 21:36:36 · 40 answers · asked by GM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Could it be within months from when you guys first started the relationship or does it take years (maybe 3 or 4 years).What does it mean if a guy is taking long to commit to the relationship?

2006-11-09 21:36:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 21:35:47 · 14 answers · asked by coolguy 2 in Singles & Dating

Some of my friends say their wives hit them when they quarrel, but they always refrain from fighting or hitting back.
Is there an unwritten rule that a man should not hit a woman ?

2006-11-09 21:33:34 · 36 answers · asked by Toshihiro 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known this guy for about three years and we have always had something, but our timing has just been off. We both known the feelings exsists and even when we have been in relationships with other people we have talked about how we both need to know how we feel. He has been with this girl for about a year now and they have best friends since high school, but while he has been with her he still tells me that he wonders about me and even thought Im with someone I wonder about him. I think he got the message from me that there was no chance, today he became engaged. Should I take our off timing as a sign that it just wasn't meant to be, or should I ask him how he feels. If he tells me he is in love with her and doesnt feel that way for me I Would leave it at that and be perfectly content, but its the not knowing that scares me. I Am worried that there will always be this thing between us, that is so unresolved.

2006-11-09 21:32:23 · 8 answers · asked by thereis 3 in Weddings

my dad has been touching me since i was 13. im 19 now n stil lives at home. i started locking my door n he came in threw the window so ive locked that as well. i came home from work to find my lock gone so ive been staying at my bf's place. he doesnt know. no one does.

2006-11-09 21:32:04 · 30 answers · asked by hate_my_life4eva 1 in Family

m gf is taking a ride everyday with a guy that likes her a lot , and she seems very enthousiatic at taking this ride...She told me about the rides, maybe because she wants to know if I'm gonna react or if I trust her ...I don't react about this because, I want to show her that I trust her, but shouldn't I ask her questions about how things is going with this guy she takes rides with everyday, or shouldn't I even talked about that ? what do you think ?

2006-11-09 21:30:36 · 12 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

It is hard to find reliable statistics on this issue. Would you please state you age, sex , age you lost your virgnity and country . And maybe add a brief comment. I'll go first

Male lost it at 23 Zimbabwe - Though waiting till marriage is the right thing I sometimes feel 'cheated coz I waited so long. My first time was not even enjoyable though I've had some good times since

2006-11-09 21:30:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 21:29:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The girl told the guy she cared him but she has a Bf already that she loves very much so she told the guy she can't talk to him anymore..the guy just ran away without giving her an answer that he understands..the girl has been try to communicate with him and talk to him about her BF but he still won't answer her..she thought they were good friends so whats with the dissappearance act..can't he talk with her? What reason would you not talk to her anymore he let her re add him to her IM so why did he let her do that if he doesn't want to talk to her? What reasons?

2006-11-09 21:29:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 21:29:20 · 16 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 21:28:12 · 15 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 21:27:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one nite while i was sleeping i heard my husband's voice" say i like you a lot but i don't love you", that really ticked me off we've been together 35yrs. i awoke to see him snoring fast a sleep . i was always told thing's like this have meaning's but i can't figure it out my sister say's it might be my own insecurities about something , to me this isn't funny it really bug's me . if you have no idea please don't answer , i only want real truthful asnwers

2006-11-09 21:27:40 · 7 answers · asked by Edna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it seems to me that some women pick men knowin what they are like marry them, try to change them and get stressed when they cant and blame the men for not being good enuff.

why???

2006-11-09 21:27:26 · 20 answers · asked by uk_louis_1986 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 21:26:46 · 18 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does your partner have a right to know Everything about your life and what you do? for e.g. my bff's boyfriend asked her to look at her email account because " WHAT DO U HAVE TO HIDE from me ANYWAYS"? he asked for her password and he gave her his email account's password..I do not know why but i feel like she doensn't need to show him her email account! it's sort of like a violation of privacy! is this a lack of trust or is this trust? showing your lover things like that is trusting that person or is this a case of a lack of trust? please help us out here.

2006-11-09 21:26:38 · 9 answers · asked by Feodora 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 21:25:25 · 10 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

looks is not very important for me but my wavelength should match with his.
none of the guys appeal to me..
very confused & tensed whether i will get the kind of guy im seeking.

2006-11-09 21:24:49 · 20 answers · asked by ranya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why is it dat its only married men dat comes my way, and d single ones are not d serious ones. i need help?

2006-11-09 21:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by mma 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 21:23:41 · 8 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what i mean is i marry here in the phils. for my first husband then now after 4 years i wanted to marry again to the other man in the other country and if it valid that i can marry to the other country even i not yet file an annulment here?

2006-11-09 21:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by monic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we were fens jus lik sisters one day we had disagreameant n we started nt to tok. the next time we start to talk and than we fight ova the same ting n again n again. till one of us broke dwn n does nt wan to b frens again.

2006-11-09 21:19:51 · 17 answers · asked by ifah ayu 1 in Friends

people keep on telling me things I can think of. Who can advice me on something new that has never been told to someone else?

2006-11-09 21:19:47 · 15 answers · asked by mchezio 1 in Friends