we were fens jus lik sisters one day we had disagreameant n we started nt to tok. the next time we start to talk and than we fight ova the same ting n again n again. till one of us broke dwn n does nt wan to b frens again.
2006-11-09 21:19:51 · 17 answers · asked by ifah ayu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Even though you both were like sisters but you were not really...
the EGO is the problem..
try to solve it.
2006-11-09 21:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by aniliveon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is best to go your seperate ways. If you are doing nothing but fighting now that would probably be best.
Oh it will hurt but in the long run you will see that it was better to do it now than on down the road when it gets worse.
Sometimes one wants to control the other or tell the other what to do. Jealousy could be a part.
It is better to love and let go then to never have loved and that's with friendships too.
You could go away from each other and later come back and be the best of friend.
You never know.
2006-11-10 05:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to everyone. I think that a little fighting in a friendship brings the friends closer together after the arguing is over. Just talk to your friend very calmly and tell her how you feel. Stay calm even if she lashes out at you and even instigates or provokes a fight. If it doesnt work out just try to spread your wings a little and meet some new people who will be better and wont fight with you as much. You might be a little fragile at first if it doesnt work out, but life goes on. ood luck girl!
2006-11-10 10:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Penelope ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its neither your fault or her fault.Both of you are alike,stand firm on your ground,debating and protecting what you think is correct and not willing to give up.
This kind of problem will appear some times in the friendship.Do not give up your point of view for the sake of saving friendship,you will regret it sooner or later,you will lose this friendship at that time also.No point talking about that disagreement again because its obvious that an argument will take place over and over again.
Give some space and time to her,eventually things will work out if this friendship is meant to be
2006-11-10 06:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friendship is a great thing to have. However, friendship is a problem because you think you know them but you really don't. At school, my friends think I'm a weak *** person that never work out but hehe if they know. Blow flex in my garage and I'm getting my 8 pack soon.
2006-11-10 05:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was the fight over you know Freons are hard to come by and was the fight over a boy if so thy are lost of boys out thy in the world no one sure fight over a boy one of you or to call and say you are sorry and be Freons again good luck to bust of you
2006-11-10 05:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friendship is sharing all feeling, so should not worry, the more argue the more you will be closer, Friendship is Gold - should treasure your friend and help each other
2006-11-10 05:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz no1 is perfect so we r bound to step on each others toes bt wat proves if ur tru frens is how u handle to the situation and ur willingness to forgive n stay frens
anything worth having is hard to gt n keep n so is it with a gud freindhsip
all the best
if she truly means a lot to u then dun give up on her
2006-11-10 06:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by brawneyedempress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both know what being friends mean you'd come to realize that it is not the matter of agreeing to every case that comes your way. you got to understand the fact that we differ and that we have to accept and respect each others' different views and opinions. both of you failed to face the facts, think again and make up.
2006-11-10 06:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by sweetberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to have friends that is just like brother and sister to us.
I think everybody have their own view in certain things and sometimes we may not see things eye to eye.
We must be able to learn and accept othe view and not insist in other to believe our view. A true friend is willing to share his/her view with you and not force you to accept his /her view .
2006-11-10 06:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋