looks is not very important for me but my wavelength should match with his.
none of the guys appeal to me..
very confused & tensed whether i will get the kind of guy im seeking.
2006-11-09 21:24:49 · 20 answers · asked by ranya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
THEY ARE SEARCHING SO FAR THEY HAVE NOT FINALISED. LET HOPE THAT YOUR CHOICE ALSO FULFILLED.
2006-11-13 02:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. This sort of thing happens frequently in where I come from. However, the best thing is to be bold enough and tell your parents' how you feel about the suitors and the reason you dont like them. Tell them that the most important thing in any marriage is happiness and that you will not be happy if the force the wrong suitor on you. I suggest you dont argue with them but try to let them view the matter from your perspective. Also, on a final note, look for a guy that you are compartible with and a guy you can tolerate his excess and appreciate his weakness, and most of all, look out for a guy who will make you wake up in the morning with a smile knowing that he is yours and you are his. Cheers
2006-11-09 21:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't adjust the wavelength with the one brought to you by your parents; then there is nothing beneficial in getting tense & confused, but find one of your choice and present before the parents.
2006-11-09 21:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for compatibility which you didn't find in any of these guys. Specify your wavelength to your parents so that they can narrow down their choice and not go on a wild hunt. And I do hope you will get the type of guy you have in your mind. Best of luck lady.
2006-11-10 00:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
posting this question won't help either! I understand your state, but it is you who have to take this biggest decision of your life. Try looking for a guy yourself ( its not offensive for a girl in 21 century), and trust me there doesn't exist a perfect guy, who will match all your thoughts. Whats more important is that u shud be able to respect each others' thoughts.
Sincerely
Raj
2006-11-09 21:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Raj S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand what you are going through! only solution is, talk to your parents bi\out the kind of guy you have in mind. if your family is too formal for such kind of talk then just tell them not ask any one to come and visit you for a formal girl watching cermony(or whatever its called) untill and unless you have been informally introduced to the guy.
this way you can get to knoe a person without his pretending to be the ideal match!
2006-11-09 21:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no perfection in any thing .Dreams never come true. But one can try again and again in getting his or her things. You can choose a guy who is not 100% of your choice but at least above 80% rest 20% will change him with your love and care.
2006-11-09 22:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by babli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't u tell ur parents that we are no more in a world were the found husband to daughter or what ever
i don't know ur culture but it totally wrong to found a man to a girl
what proof that the man will been the right one
nothing
ask ur parents if they really want ur happiness they should let u decide in ur own choice....final
2006-11-09 22:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by lias 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waise to ill say dat ur parents shall find d best guy 4 u!!
bt if u dont like any of dem its nt a prob 2!! jst tell dem d reason or is it so dat u like sm1 else?
if u do like any1 else den no probz tell ur parents about it and try convincing dem!!
I HOPE ULL GET D RITE ONE. I SHALL LOVE 2 pray 4 u!!
2006-11-09 21:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out ur dream guy on ur own n take him to parents for approval. What r the qualities u r in looking for ur dream guy?
2006-11-09 22:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by g_hnst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your requirement clearly to your parents. How do you know the wavelenghts match without moving closely. It is purely luck. So best of luck to you.
2006-11-09 21:33:22 · answer #11 · answered by SGraja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋