Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

the first one you are dating becos of xtian affinity, even though you have never been for a second attracted to him. but you still date him anyway becos everyone seems to think he is the perfect one for you and he also proposed to you on this ground that he's been led to meet you as he is your God's choosen hubby. the second guy, also a xtian, but is more honest with his approach and walks up to you that he likes you and he falls more into the man of your dreams, but then, you already gave the first guy your word that you would marry him. please what would you do?

2006-11-09 22:21:21 · 9 answers · asked by wittybaby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 22:20:52 · 18 answers · asked by cute cute 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to do something kinky to my boyfriend, whilest he's sleeping I would like to go down on him..., would he enjoy that? would any guy enjoy that, or is it a bad idea?

2006-11-09 22:20:36 · 10 answers · asked by Sheepless 1 in Singles & Dating

The best reason for me giving them can have them!

2006-11-09 22:20:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 23 living with her fiancee and they have a 7month old son, my first granchild The trouble is she going back to work soon and she wants me to look after my grandson while she works I said I would but I said she has to pay me I mentioned $50 a fortnight ( Iam only on a pension).I will have him from 7am until 6pm 10 days straight per fortnight. They said if I don't do it for free I will never see him again. Should I accept their terms so I can see my grandson or what do I do?

2006-11-09 22:19:12 · 16 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

I am a female and am quizical about my sex organs. Can anyone help me out? Id like to know what an erection is and if i have one. Is it a good thing?

2006-11-09 22:18:56 · 15 answers · asked by Schniz'n'Chiz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 22:14:28 · 15 answers · asked by ged t 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 22:14:06 · 40 answers · asked by jd_girl_06 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a girl who is in relation with me. I mean no one of the family members will have any problem if we would marry. Her sister is my brothers wife and my brother and her wife knows everything and in my favor. My mom also likes her too much and her brother is also my friend. I am 21 and she is 17. We both live in the same city. Now I don’t know how to tell her that I love her. I have her phone number and address as well. Her sister invited me many times to her home but I feel shy going there. But I love her too much. What should I do? Should I go for this relation slowly and slowly? I mean being friend and then propose or should I tell her straightaway that I love you. She knows me. Girls put your self to the place of her and answer me because I am serious about this relation and I want to be with her for the whole life. I mean I want to marry her. Thank you!!!!

2006-11-09 22:13:13 · 16 answers · asked by James 1 in Singles & Dating

recently some not very nice girls have been threatening me, emailing me, stalking me-you name it even to some extent blackmailing me-I made the mistake of telling my son about it, now he is determined to go to where one of these girls works-as we have since found out where and have a word (if you know what I mean), I am very flattered my son wants to protect me but I still feel its a matter for the police. I dont agree with violence but my boy says its the only way, once he gets going he is like a rotwieller-do you think anger management would help?

2006-11-09 22:13:03 · 18 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy wants to take things further with you (sexually) and you say no, but he still contacts you to meet up with him, is he really interested in you or is he just holding out until you give him what he wants?

2006-11-09 22:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Singles & Dating

I like to be free in a relationship, to want to be with someone. not need to be. passion and love are important to me too. my bf is kinda possessive, i know he's gonna be upset today because i didn't see him last night, if i go to see my friends he wants to know if they are guys or girls, and he gets funny if it is a guy. he often thinks i've been with another guy. he always wants to be able to reach me by phone, to know where i am. he says he's gonna call the police if i dont answer and he doesn't care if they think he's nuts, whatever it takes to reach me and to know that i'm ok. he withdraws affection if i dont see him. i am just finding it all a bit much. maybe a little suffocating.

2006-11-09 22:11:35 · 5 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend said that she would bring anothr girl into the bedroom if i wanted. i said no because i care for the realationship and think it would pretty mush be ruined after that happened do you think the same? is this some kind of a test for me?

2006-11-09 22:10:09 · 4 answers · asked by wanted 1 in Singles & Dating

I will be on board for approx 3 months. I am excited and anxious as it's my first time. But how do I spend my time as my husband will be busy and I don't wish to disturb his work.

2006-11-09 22:09:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can a bloke sleep wiv a girl he does not fancy for months on end?

2006-11-09 22:07:44 · 24 answers · asked by jd_girl_06 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when he shuts you out of his life,
Dosen't talk to you or let you into what he is doing,
Dosent hold you at night either,
Especially when you think he has something fishy with a girl
Been married for close to two years
I dont want to ask him about the girl cos it will make him happy and proud and make me appear insecure.
Iam also trying to make him jealous, although i have nothing going on with another man.
i've been making lots of hush-hush calls lately which is quite unlike me.i also call my phone from a call center with hidden id.
Where do you think this game is hading to????????
He is showing no sign of jealousy. what do i do,iam beautiful,mind you and iam older too.

2006-11-09 22:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by helpmegetaname 3 in Marriage & Divorce

some of us know what we want in oder to be happy and hence we have qualities we watch out for in our life partner. on what ground therefore would you not consider those qualities in choosing your partner? and what is always the end results of marrying based on sentiments?

2006-11-09 22:06:09 · 5 answers · asked by wittybaby 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 22:05:19 · 15 answers · asked by American Splendor 5 in Family

You think you met the guy/girl of your dreams and decided to get married. Years later, you wish you had waited. It's not necessarily that you want a divorce, you just wish you had given yourself some more time.

2006-11-09 22:02:40 · 13 answers · asked by adazhia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-09 21:59:55 · 31 answers · asked by Natasha B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 21:57:30 · 22 answers · asked by mrsunshine56987 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Mother was telling me earlier that the meaning of life is love. Could it really be? I mean, sure, we all grow up, have realtionships, get married and all that, but could the meaning of life be to find that one true soul-mate? I thought there was a slight flaw there. What if you NEVER find your soul-mate. You are doomed to a life of lonliness and possible rejection. If the meaning of life is to find a soul-mate, then those that never find them, does that mean they have failed life? I think not. While I DO agree with the soul-mate thing, I belive it IS possible to complete life's journeys without a soul-mate. I beleive that life is what you make it. Whether or not you find "That person" is another thing. I consider it a lucky thing, but a thing none the less.

What do you alll think about this?

2006-11-09 21:57:02 · 5 answers · asked by <*) ) )>< 2 in Singles & Dating

I ended up not marrying mine despite my childhood fantansies of marrying one. so i was wondering if it happens that way with most women or not?

2006-11-09 21:55:30 · 17 answers · asked by wittybaby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, I am Jennifer i am 16 and i finally got away from this othere guy that i really dident like. But anyways i love this othere guy i had a thing for him for like a year i hope that's along enofe time to care for someyone. But i want to ask him if he would like to go out sometime but i am not just scard i am nerves.i really like this guy.This week there is this party going on at the all night skat and he is gonna be there i was going to go. but i dont know what i should do. But i have to go for now if u need anything els for info just say it plz.

2006-11-09 21:54:42 · 8 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 21:54:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why can't he give me a simple yes or no answer? All the girl wants to know if the guy understands that she likes him and cares for him but because she does love her BF she can't talk to him anymore and the guy refuses to answer her that he can understands...WTF..the girl is now angry

2006-11-09 21:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for over a year now i've been obsessing about him and can't seem to get him out of my head. it's better but for 5 months it was 24/7. i haven't told anyone, not even my buddy and especially my wife of 25 years, but it's affecting my marriage and job and i'm getting depressed over this. he's a handsome, fit and successful guy. I put a question mark by str8 because who knows about anyone's sexuality unless they tell you. this started happening about 2 months after meeting him and hanging out last fall. what's going on in my head? we haven't had contact of any kind for almost 6 months and i plan to stay away. there was no sex involved. i've never obsessed about anything in my life. i'm 48 and also successful, fit and told i'm good looking. my marriage is "ok" after 25 years. no sparks flying.

2006-11-09 21:50:10 · 11 answers · asked by Chad S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 21:49:15 · 25 answers · asked by Peter J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

simon 23 year old living in torrance CA .

2006-11-09 21:48:48 · 13 answers · asked by simsim 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in sort of a group of 3 friends, lets say me, E and G. Well, I have always known that E and G have been closer to each other than I have ever been to either of them, but ately I have been feeling really jealous and left out. Sometimes it seems like dumb things, like they'll go to our local shopping centre without me, and if I ask if they called they'll just be like 'Well, it was a last minuts thing, we didn't have any time to ring you'. But the last time the did it was the time I felt the most left out. We idolise 2 comedians, Lano and Woodley, and we have been watching them together for ages, but we have never seen them in a show. When they went to the shopping centre they went to G's place afterwards, and on eBay they found some tickets to a Lano and Woodley contest, but they only got 2 so they decided to leave me out. I talked to them about it and they're just like 'Don't worry Erin you'll see them some day' even though this is the GOODBYE tour they're seeing.

2006-11-09 21:48:16 · 10 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3 in Friends