Can a bloke sleep wiv a girl he does not fancy for months on end?
2006-11-09 22:07:44 · 24 answers · asked by jd_girl_06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy is on the hunt he will definitely sleep with the first thing that comes along to keep himself in sex until the girl he really wants comes along. Then he will not stop sleeping with the first girl until he has first bedded the next. Why give up sex for something else that isn't guaranteed is the way they think. I'm sure girls do it too. I know they do. The danger is that a guy can end up too long with the girl he didn't want and end up stuck with her.
I could do that in the past but not anymore as I've too much to lose if I did
2006-11-09 22:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. The trick is to not let on that you don't fancy her. Acting sincere is an ability which some men have perfected.
Many women, however, seem to be oblivious to signs that he does not fancy her, and that he is only there for the physical side of the relationship.
These include :
- not hanging around very much before and after sex
- being secretive about where he is when he is not with you
- wanting his own "personal space", and going places without you
- being very defensive about letting you read his text messages or moving out of range of your hearing when talking on the phone.
These are all things which are a not a burden to share with someone you care about.
2006-11-09 22:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Labsci 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy I suppose and whether or not by "sleeping with" you mean that literally or having sex with. Mind you, although guys can often have sex with girls they might not fancy, with the same one for months on end? I very much doubt it, although as I say, depends on the guy. Personally speaking it wouldn't be for me even though I haven't slept with one I fancy OR don't fancy other than in the literal sense for ages. :)
And if you suspect your guy is doing that, TALK to him about it and if think he's sleeping with you JUST for the sex, then show him the door pronto - for your own sake!
2006-11-09 22:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by mancunian_nick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. you are just using this girl for your own personal pleasure while not caring about their feelings. however i think you do fancy this girl in a way as you wouldnt be sleeping with her would you?
2006-11-09 22:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by dawn l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men think with their pants, so i guess yes but whether they would or should is a different thing. All men are different though not all are the same!
2006-11-09 22:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my gran taught me a saying when i was 17yrs old...."A standing C**K has no conscience" and do you know what? she was right. Of course he can same as a woman can sleep with a man she doesnt fancy.
2006-11-09 22:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by heleneaustin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, possibly, probably just for the feeling and not the affection.
2006-11-09 22:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sheepless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dog does the chickens, rabbits, pigs and all the animals on the farm. He once got the guinea pig pregnant but we had to give her away. :(
2006-11-09 22:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by hotbitch69_xoxoxo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats the point....unless of course the guy is desperate and cannot get anyone else....how sad....the girl should ditch him and find someone with some respect
2006-11-09 22:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wake up dear! They even screw plastic dolls for Gods sake...
2006-11-09 22:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋