Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

My neighbor has this HUGE crush on me, and honestly i hate him sooo much! I am forced to sit with him in one of my classes and all i listen to is him trying to act tough cool and smart (he is a real dork h repeated a grade and omg a wimp) all i hear is lies from this guy trying to impress me and when i try to ingore him he just keeps on talking to me! He even comes to my house! How can i make this dude leave me alone?! or at least stop flat out lie to me?

2006-11-09 23:12:21 · 16 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 23:11:55 · 16 answers · asked by cracerjace 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

In December, but they finished as he found out about her cheating with his mate, twice... He said he doesn't want to be with her... But he will be a gread Dad.. I'm not going to get silly about it and make him choose between his baby or me, as that is just selfish and childish... I will give him all the support and love he needs and I want to help out with the baby if he wants me to...

Why has he kept the baby quite though? As I was speaking to one of his other mates the other day, (not the one who his ex slept with) and he didn't even know about the baby, and him and his mate are real close, and also some of his family have just found out about the baby...

Do you think he's scared of this whole baby thing? He said he's not ready for it yet... either way, he's guna be a gread Daddy, I just wish it was me having his baby... Maybe oneday though :)

2006-11-09 23:10:30 · 12 answers · asked by me_me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am on a school where gils and boys have saperate biuldings in adistance of a walking distance and i want to make a girl friend how should i mak and i have a shool party on tuesday the girls will also be there what should i do, please ans. me till sunday

2006-11-09 23:08:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-09 23:08:03 · 10 answers · asked by Ishanya C 1 in Friends

my best friend and husband have 2 small children 4and 6.She came to mr and toldme he is having an affair with a 13 yo he is 33. He told her if she tells anyone he will takes the kids off her and dissappear with them and the girl. She also told me that he does not love the kids because they are apart of her. I informed the police and he was charged now she is not speaking to me because I split her family up. We have been best friends since kindergaten and we are both 32 how can I get her freindship back?

2006-11-09 23:07:54 · 19 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

I want to know if buying gifts is enogh reason to show that a man is in love with me.

2006-11-09 23:06:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have a class together and he rides my bus. We talk and I am friends with his sister. But whenever I see him, I see him watching me and looking at me. My friend on bus thinks he likes me because she said, "He feel comfortable with you, and doesn't hesistate, and plus he is always looking at you." He is 1/2 year younger than I am, so would it be weird for a older person to ask a younger person out. In the hallways he follows me and talk to me all the time, but sometimes he waits for me....like today, his class is down the hall and my class is further away, so he told me he made he put everything away just to be in time to see me. He now has a girlfriend but is always complaining to me how she is so annoying and he is always looking at me. When I see him, he stares right at me and is really friendly. He is always flirty with girls that are right next to me and other than that he doesn't talk 2 them.You can ask question but I will not answer personal questions. (Example: names and etc.)

2006-11-09 23:06:19 · 4 answers · asked by Michelle 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 23:04:49 · 25 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife was raped TWICE....once when she was ten and again when she was nineteen. She never told ANYONE - just me 22years after we had been married. I am troubled and need help.

2006-11-09 23:04:43 · 17 answers · asked by tooostep 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 23:04:00 · 8 answers · asked by g_hnst 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a long distance gf who i am deeply in love with and have been dating her for 4 yrs, she is my all i cant think of anyone else, however, she has admitted she is not in love with me, and infact never has been in love, i want to marry her which she knows and be with her forthe rest of my life, i try to treat her the best, is my love enough for both of us, and could she grow to love me

2006-11-09 23:03:30 · 31 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 23:03:22 · 12 answers · asked by MARI 1 in Friends

Idon't know what to do about my marriage for various reasons. I am now 54 and although I look good for my age, my husband is 41. We had not been getting on for a long time as we had control issues(he is totally controlling) also I found out he was having an affair so that would explain his aggression and constant criticism of me. Eight months after I discovered affair, he moved out although I said I could live with it, he said because he felt trapped in the marriage and wanted to try new things and take risks (whatever they are). After moving out he started to come back to our house every weekend and has become a reformed character. We sleep together, we go on holiday together, he is nice to me but wont talk about the future. He says things that suggest he will come back, but says he is not ready. I can't decide whether I should trust him because he could be playing for time till our daughter is 18 next year so that he wont loose out on the property.
Could he be so callous?

2006-11-09 23:02:00 · 24 answers · asked by Nancy S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband stays home and takes care of our children and the housework and so many people have to dis on him and say things like he is a "loser" and "kick him to the curb". But we are both ok with this, I go to work and he takes care of everything else. He has a medical problem with his ears that prevents him from working at the moment and I have to say I enjoy having him home and not having to worry about housework and stuff like that. And I have more time to enjoy the kids. I just don't understand why people say it is perfectly ok for a woman to have this role, but when it come to a man people seem to think it is wrong. Why is this?

2006-11-09 23:01:54 · 16 answers · asked by mystique133333 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 23:00:41 · 13 answers · asked by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 in Family

im seeing a guy who was a friend but things have got physical, the drawback being he always cheats on his girlfriends
he got drunk one day and confessed that he wants to have a full on relationship with me but cant promise that he will be faithful but has said he will try his hardest as he does not want to make a fool out of me
he then said we should talk when we were both sober, the next day he spent the day with one of his girlfriends and didnt mention the night before
when i mentioned it he said he did not remember the conversation
is he genuine? surely if he really meant what he said it would show in his behaviour
he's said on the night that he would need some time to get his act together and end the other relationships - a month -
i dont know if he means whats he says or if i should trust him as it seems like a game to me

2006-11-09 22:58:58 · 30 answers · asked by anna63 1 in Singles & Dating

If you were chasing a girl and you finally caught her, but she wouldnt take things further than kissing, (even tho you tried too), would you keep in contact with her?

2006-11-09 22:58:12 · 15 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he has no interest for sex. 2 weeks ago we were about to have sex and he was not turned on and he said sorry you still love me and I said of course I do but I was disappointed he doesnt give it to me often. we never have privacy because he lives with roomates. whenever I see him we always sit in th car ar sit in the house with his roomates they are always around and I get so pissed. He never turned on and doenst want sex anymore . I dont know hat happen. any comment? what should I do?

2006-11-09 22:57:32 · 16 answers · asked by merry c 1 in Singles & Dating

I have noticed when I have been reading questions on here regarding relationship problems that most of us seem to side with the asker without knowing anything about the other side of the story. When someone is going through a divorce or splitting from their partner, 99% of the answers say the asker should tell his ex to f*** off and not let them get away with anything.
Usually we only get their side of the story but it usually takes two to make or break a relationship.

When someone talks about their spouse having an affair, we are quick to judge and support them, saying their spouse is an ar** but when someone is discussing their own affairs, the answers usually support them and blame the other half.

Just something I have been wondering about.

2006-11-09 22:56:40 · 23 answers · asked by IC 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife loves toys, vibrators, dildo's, etc...and I luv pleasing her with them....but are there any toys that are made for men too? blow-up dolls are stupid, so is there a legit toy for a guy?

2006-11-09 22:56:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This one is truly priceless:

My long-passed grandmother's birthday is coming up, and for me it is
time to reminisce. The long walks we used to take. The long drives, the
special trips she would make to pick me up so I could spend weekends
with her, and the advice she used to give!

Much was wasted because I was young when she died. If she was alive
today and sharing her pearls of wisdom, I'd be a better man. Those gems
were all good, but the one I remember most, the jewel in the crown of
grand motherly advice, came when I was only 12. We were sitting in a
park, watching children and their mothers enjoying a beautiful spring
day. She told me that one day, I'd find a great woman and start my own
family. "And son, remember this always," she said, "be sure you marry a
woman with small hands."

"How come, Grandma?" I asked her.

She answered in her soft voice... "makes your pecker look bigger."

Kinda brings a tear to your eye, doesn't it?

2006-11-09 22:54:38 · 8 answers · asked by Sangy . 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes he acts as very nearer to me and sometimes very far. He waits for my call, he wont respond properly when i call him. Does a man feels shy to express, or he dont have any feeling for me.
Before seeing him i never trust love, i use to laugh at people if anybody speaks are discuss about love in front of me. I come to know what after experiencing it.
he knows about my feeling but he will act as he dont know anything, how to know what he is thinking of me?
Please help me girls & Boys

2006-11-09 22:52:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and which of the two parents do you think has more insights in the issue of love?

2006-11-09 22:52:13 · 7 answers · asked by wittybaby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am becoming confused by my friends actions, she constantly tells me i'm her best mate, and that she wouldn't know what to do without me, however when it comes to spending any sort of social time with her, she wants to be part of a bigger crowd and will happily ignore for hours, i really want say she's my best mate too, and she has helped me through alot, but i sometimes feel i'm being used, so she knows she has someone to fall back on if all else goes wrong, i'll still be there.
any serious ideas on what i could do?

2006-11-09 22:52:04 · 14 answers · asked by Curiously strong mints 1 in Friends

Just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and im lonely, but I met this other guy quite recently... do you think rebound is the way to go? Coz I dint know if i like him or not. I know your all gonna say no you'll just get hurt.. but I feel it sometimes helps to move on? And he fully knows he the rebound guys. :-)

2006-11-09 22:51:34 · 17 answers · asked by chickyboo222 5 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I broke up not too long back cause she says that she is confused about what she wants, but another guy is in the picture (she says it has nothing to do with it but he is the whole reason behind it). If she says that she just needs her space........even though she is not spacing herself from him........She says she loves me and means it ...........What should I do? Wait and see if things go sour and be there for her when they do..........or just say screw it and move on? Detailed answers please.

2006-11-09 22:50:54 · 13 answers · asked by tmcfmj 1 in Singles & Dating

for the past 2 months my partner hasnt been very well and last weekend he was realy bad he tried to committ suicide and his brother took him home back to his parents as we live together but anyway he is still with his parents been there all this week am trying to get him to come home and all i get of him is i dont know when i will be back and am worried i have lost him for good i keep in touch but he doesnt his parents wont let me speak to him half the time am in the flat on my own worrying and to make it worse i have no money he said he will put some money in his credit card for me to use all i want is for him to come home but his parents wont let him he is 30 years old and listens to mummy and daddy have i lost him for good or will he be back cause am realy upset and feeling depressed as i dont have any family near by so am compleatly on my own i love him so much.

2006-11-09 22:50:37 · 9 answers · asked by baby dust for me 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 22:49:31 · 9 answers · asked by BMW M5 3 in Singles & Dating

After getting back together and realising some problems were coming back up we've decided not to have sex for a month.

That was a week ago.

Tonight we're meeting for a drink in a bar but I know now I want to try and shag her. Probably in the car.

Is this a bad idea? What will she think? Should I bring something to tie her up with just in case? (she likes that)

Help!

2006-11-09 22:49:02 · 26 answers · asked by charlie 3 in Singles & Dating