My ex and I broke up not too long back cause she says that she is confused about what she wants, but another guy is in the picture (she says it has nothing to do with it but he is the whole reason behind it). If she says that she just needs her space........even though she is not spacing herself from him........She says she loves me and means it ...........What should I do? Wait and see if things go sour and be there for her when they do..........or just say screw it and move on? Detailed answers please.
2006-11-09 22:50:54 · 13 answers · asked by tmcfmj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it is difficult to let go of someone that you love but if she says she is confused about what she wants and eneded the relationship with you, you have to move on.
If you strongly believe that there is someone else in the picture and he is the reason she "needs her space"- give it to her.
Don't let her line "but I love you" confuse the issue. Remember she wanted out of your relationship. What kind of love is that?
Don't let her manipulate you into being the guy on the back burner while she cooks it up with the new guy.
2006-11-09 23:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard the "I need some space" excuse a lot of times and it even happened to me one.When you love that person you think of it as a plausable reason and whant it from all your heart to be true and just a phase that will eventualy pass..but gues what: it's not ! I haven't heard of a single case were the persons stayed together after one of them used this excuse.She doesn't love you and that's a fact.I know this may sound hard to you but the best thing is to forget about her and try to move on.Try asking yourself why would one need space when there are feelings of love ?
Why does she need the space off from you and not from the other guy ? you really shoud try to forget about her and move on.If you to talk to me or further questions just ask.
2006-11-10 06:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by G R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on, usually if there is another guy in the picture she's already over you and on to him, just doesn't know how to say it and not hurt you. Then again he could just be a friend who has made her realize that you are not what she wants. Why not ask her up front, calmly.
2006-11-10 06:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is aways another guy and hopefully he wasn't there while you were dating. I would let her do her thing and stop calling her. When you see her smile and say hello. I would show her that you can be happy and independent. Of course a lot of guys go out and find another woman right away as a form of revenge, I guess it depends on your personality.
2006-11-10 06:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by headcheese700 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on mate,you've got to smarter than that.yes its a copout,she obviousley doesnt want to hurt your feelings,she needs her space from you so she can be with him,trust me,ive been in the same bout,ive done the same and its just a easy way to say dont want you any more but dont want to hurt you,she probably does CARE,get rid of her,lifes to short mate.and your probally to good for her any way...
2006-11-10 07:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by kristy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time waiting for someone who isn't committed to you. I know it may be hard, but go out and have yourself a good time and enjoy being single. If she comes around (seems like she's playing games to me), then fine. If not, at least wouldn't have wasted your time and your life wondering what her next move will be.
2006-11-10 06:53:18 · answer #6 · answered by Luv... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on Dude, she will come to you if she wants too get back together. Go out meet new people.
2006-11-10 06:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's trying to dump you but keep you in reserve. Get on with your life without her.
2006-11-10 06:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she doesn't want to hurt you if there is another guy involved move on buddy find someone that will treat you right
2006-11-10 06:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move it on down the road
2006-11-10 06:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by The Hater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋