My neighbor has this HUGE crush on me, and honestly i hate him sooo much! I am forced to sit with him in one of my classes and all i listen to is him trying to act tough cool and smart (he is a real dork h repeated a grade and omg a wimp) all i hear is lies from this guy trying to impress me and when i try to ingore him he just keeps on talking to me! He even comes to my house! How can i make this dude leave me alone?! or at least stop flat out lie to me?
2006-11-09 23:12:21 · 16 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okaii...ive kinda been through this...but the guy wasnt my neighbor!!!
what you really needa do is sit this guy down and say...i'm not going 2 LIE...and im not going continue on listin to you go on. I'm going to tell you straight from the heart.
I don't like you in that way...i never have, and i don't like you lying to me. If you really did like me, 1 you wouldnt lie and 2 you wouldnt act like a moron!
Tell him straight up before you blurt out something that might hurt both of you.
Best of luck.
I have faith in you!= ]
2006-11-09 23:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Shayne R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he is just doing what all adolescent males do to win the affection of a girl. Some boys think that all girls want a bad boy. You are obviously attractive and he is doing his best to get you to notice him. Remember that negative attention is better than no attention. Just stay true to your beliefs and as far as being a wimp and failing a grade that is circumstantial. I mean look at Bill Gates, he was a college drop out and failed math in high school. You may hate him now but maybe in the future you could find good virtues in him and who knows he could turn out to be the love of your life. If the situation gets out of hand there is always the option of restraining order, but do you believe that is necessary? Just do not ridicule him for what he does not have. Material things come and go, but someone who is willing to stay and fight the big fight lasts a lifetime.
Good Luck.
2006-11-10 07:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sinister Minister 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well there's nothing you can do about his lies but there are laws against predatory behavior ,,,, and or stalking ,,,, You should talk to your parents about it and then report him to the police if you think it necessary and explain your problem to them including his coming to your house apparently uninvited,,,, This should also be reported to your teacher if you haven't already done so,,,, or the Dean or Principle of your school ,,,, this should at least get one of you reassigned to a seat else where ,,,, Just how far you go with this depends on how bad you want something done ,,,, Once you've decided your course of action then follow through with it ,,,,, Don't chicken out ,,,,Stick to your guns so to speak ,,,, If this persons head is so dense that he can't take a hint then you need to do something ,,,, Especially if you consider him dangerous or if he's interfering with your studies ,,,, Good luck with this ,,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2006-11-10 08:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try telling him that your not interested, and then telling him what type of bloke you are interested in, that will either put him off or try to act more in a way that you'll like. Im not saying by doing that he'll become your ideal man, but at least he may be bearable. The best thing to do is tell him yourself that your not interested, even if it comes across a bit mean, will give him a sense of reality. You never know, this "act" might just be how he is?
Dan
2006-11-10 07:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him straight forwardly n still nothing changes just then tell some other guys to bash him up if he really troubles u much n yeah if ur soft hearted then u can change ur cell number and ur house without even letting him know the address
2006-11-10 07:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Read some stuff on assertiveness and hey presto! you can banish all the dorks and people you don't want to be with.Try it and let me know how it worked for you.
2006-11-10 07:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by up urs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how you are feeling - in the nicest possible way - that nothing will ever happen between you and you would like to stay friends.
about the lying - best again to be honest and tell him - that it doesnt impress
2006-11-10 07:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by schmushe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried just telling him exactly how you feel? And for this- you could never admire him. He would never be truly happy anyway if you don't think he's the greatest.
2006-11-10 07:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ignore him and and don't conversate with him. Act as if he's invisible to you. He'll stop at one point when he sees you ignoring him over and over. He'll give up, just keep ignoring him.
2006-11-10 08:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
when he talks to you change the conversation and tell him about some guy you met and how you really like this guy, eventually he'll get the clue
2006-11-10 07:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by dragongml 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋