im seeing a guy who was a friend but things have got physical, the drawback being he always cheats on his girlfriends
he got drunk one day and confessed that he wants to have a full on relationship with me but cant promise that he will be faithful but has said he will try his hardest as he does not want to make a fool out of me
he then said we should talk when we were both sober, the next day he spent the day with one of his girlfriends and didnt mention the night before
when i mentioned it he said he did not remember the conversation
is he genuine? surely if he really meant what he said it would show in his behaviour
he's said on the night that he would need some time to get his act together and end the other relationships - a month -
i dont know if he means whats he says or if i should trust him as it seems like a game to me
2006-11-09 22:58:58 · 30 answers · asked by anna63 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my god....did you read that back to yourself.? no - you should.
he needs time to end his other RELATIONSHIPS.....the fact he has more than one, for a start, that would put me off - he's already cheating on more than 2 people.
a month to end a relationship - no way - I would say 1 day per current girlfriend at most, so unless he has 30 on the go - he's stringing you along.
he wants a full on relationship but cant promise to stay faithful - then he's not mature enough to have a relationship full stop.
DO NOT TRUST THIS MAN. You deserve more than this. find yourself someone genuine.
tell him from me - he's a numpty and i hope his bits turn green and drop off - that'll teach him for being such a wally
2006-11-10 00:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just continue to carry a friendship with this guy and not let it go to the next level. You already know about what he is capable of, so why risk it? Why should he be any different with you? I am sure that there will be someone special in your life that deserves a decent person and will be more deserving of you. I wouldn't focus so much on this guy. Good luck!
2006-11-10 07:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a very conceited person who does he think he is , because women put up with his crap they allow him to get away with it,
The sort of women this men really like are the ones who do not put up with their crap are not always available and a pushover. Don,t lower yourself, ignore him, your going to end up hurt like all the others with him. Hes nothing special.
Theirs much better blokes than him around and think a bit more of yourself and you will get more and not the crumbs he throws out at women. why do you want someone who is with someone else, that does not show respect for other women, ignore the ****.
2006-11-10 07:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, if i was you i would just keep this guy as a friend if he really cared about you the thought of seeing someone else would not cross his mind, no matter how good looking or nice he is it is not worth the heart break he will cause, plus you will be wondering what he is up to or if he is eyeing up other girls, do yourself a favour and find another guy one who will be faithful and respect you...rather than living in fear of losing this guy to some bimbo that comes along or even catching a std of him...have more respect for yourself and be happy with someone else...good luck
2006-11-10 07:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are the only person who can really answer that question. You know this guy and what he is like. I know that you want to believe him, but trust me you will know if he isn't keeping his promise....call it a woman's intuition. I hope whatever happens you are happy.
2006-11-10 07:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Leggy_Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'he always cheats on his girlfriends
'he got drunk and confessed he wanted a relationship'
'Can't promise he will be faithfull'
'Next day he spent with one of his girlfriend!S!'
'didn't remember the conversation'
'end his relationship!S! - a month'
You want my honest answer?
NO
2006-11-10 07:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted to be with you then he'd of let u know and wud of finished his other relationships. But could you ever trust this guy knowing what he's like. You deseve better!
2006-11-10 07:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater.
Another way at looking at is, if your on here asking if you should trust him that means you know better and know for a fact you cant trust him.
2006-11-10 07:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE! you do know? Why would you want this guy? What is it your looking for? You will be used and dumped just like all the others. Respect your self. you are better than that and trust me there are guys, who don't even know what it is to think the way this one thinks. leave him for the others who want nothing more than dog
2006-11-10 07:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid, listen to yourself. Always Cheats, Drunk, Can't Promise, ONE of his girlfriends. Move on honey.
2006-11-10 07:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋