If a guy wants to take things further with you (sexually) and you say no, but he still contacts you to meet up with him, is he really interested in you or is he just holding out until you give him what he wants?
2006-11-09 22:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the guy. No way of saying for certain. I'd say if it was only for the sex he'd probably go somewhere where he stands a better chance of getting it but on the other hand maybe he sees it as a kind of challenge and is holding out, as you say, until you give him what he wants.
Therefore I'd suggest that until or unless you are entirely sure and happy he is with you for the right reason(s), then do NOT give him what he wants and certainly not until YOU are ready!!
2006-11-09 22:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by mancunian_nick 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell... Maybe he does genuinely enjoy being in your company and is not just waiting to see if he can get you into bed... but only time will tell, my advise - stick to you principles if you do meet up with him because you can never be sure of his intentions; If he's only in it for the sex he wont stick around for very long.
2006-11-09 22:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by sum2000mayyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps trying and you keep holding out, it could be that he feels you are worth waiting for, or he could feel like you are a conquest. You keep your eyes and ears open and learn from what you know and see about his past/present behavior with other girls. Good luck.
2006-11-09 22:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might like u, some men just like the trill of the chase then once he gets what he wants he u wont hear from him again. or just ask him
2006-11-09 22:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by chrissy_beanos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not have asked for sex in the first place. That is your decision when YOU are ready!
2006-11-09 22:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by deeky_ward 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you have a chance at answering that question. What's your intuition telling you?
2006-11-09 22:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by Katya-Zelen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he's pushing you, and trying to hard to get what he wants. i don't think he is interested in friendship
good luck with it i hope he finally listens to what you want
mel
2006-11-09 22:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, he is waiting alright. Waiting for a booty call.
2006-11-09 22:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
could go both ways
2006-11-09 22:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you feel your being pressured to do something you dont want ...why are you there?
2006-11-09 22:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋