or isnt out of the closet or is just confused? he hasnt had intercourse with women (or men) -hes 25 and he doesnt like brokeback mountain or anythng like that but he isnt a homophobe either.
2006-11-09 21:39:17 · 15 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him if he is gay?
2006-11-09 21:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine once told me that he recognized other gay men often by the kind of shoes they wore. Almost always they wear "outfits" rather than just throwing on jeans and a random shirt, and they take things like crisp ironing of clothes very seriously.
But the shoes are the giveaway. The shoes will always be a match to the outfit, but will be trendy, fashion-forward, and very unusual in style all at the same time.
My friend had a predilection for low black pointy lace-up shoes that reminded me of "elf" shoes.
As fo me, I get my shoes a WalMart (another big no-no for a gay guy).
2006-11-09 21:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It 's hard to comprehend he hasn't has sex with ANYBODY by age 25! Are you sure? I've been friends with a few guys like this in my life and I just "waited and watched"- they all eventually turned out to be gay (I did not have enough nerve to ask- that seemed a violation to me). One turned out to be someone who quickly"exploded" out of the closet, another was married and THAT went bust rather rapidly, yet another just dragged on and on doing naught sexually or relationship-wise...(Are people thinking that "Brokeback Mountain" is some kind of diagnostic indictator for gaydom?- one of my very established gay friends HATED the movie).
2006-11-09 21:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when having intercourse determine whether you are straight/gay.Maybe he haven't the right and not in rush,what wrong with not having intercourse at 25.Why rush it for ppl who like you that judge ppl in that way?
2006-11-09 22:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of seemingly straight men that are gay. It just means that they respect society and choose to supress those desires. There is too much freedom to do and act as we want when in reality, it is sometimes best to do what is best for society. Rampant homsexuality can be a major cause of the downfall of a society. romans, greeks...we can learn from them or make the same mistakes.
2006-11-09 21:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
may be he is like me not gay but hate woman and everything they stand for the things woman do piss me off to the point i don't want to deal with them any more than a Friend cuz woman's life pain make me happy
2006-11-09 21:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he likes WILL & GRACE ,, if he listens to Micheal jaskon if he wears pink shirts if he smells like j-lo , ask him what does he think of you ?! you sound reall cute if he thinks ur just great then hes 100 % a fag! ..
i hope this helps ?
2006-11-09 21:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to his house look in his pantie .. wait i mean underwear drawer and if everything is supper neat and orderly in there.. HE'S GAY
Oh yeah invest in a gaydar you can find one at sharper image LMAO!!!!1
2006-11-09 21:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by dallas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, A dead give away would be you comming home early only to find his pee pee in another mans butt!
2006-11-09 22:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by patrick s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see him inclined towards Males
2006-11-09 21:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by Bill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he has a lisp or you have to pull him off another mans naked butt.
-NmD!
2006-11-09 21:49:26 · answer #11 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋