2006-11-09 21:25:25 · 10 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-11-09 21:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although the saying, "two wrongs don't make a right" is very simplistic, I believe there is a great deal of truth to it.
If you have been cheated on, I guess it would be only natural that you feel hurt and the need to make your spouse feel that pain. However, if you proceed with your line of thinking, you may end up simply feeling guilty yourself and almost giving you spouse a "way out" of what he or she has done to you.
You would be quite right to feel wronged, but I don't think you would feel any better by "wronging" your partner back.
The real way forward may be for you to reconsider your relationship and whether you want to continue with it, whether you want to make it work (and no doubt that would take any enormous amount of effort from both of you).
Give yourself some time and respect yourself - don't make any rash decisions or take any hasty action that you're going to regret in the future.
Take care of yourself - and good luck, whatever you choose to do.
2006-11-10 05:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs can never make a right. Revenge never solved a problem in life. The only thing I will advice any spouse to fogive the offending spouse and show more love to the person. Love cures all heartache and would remove the bitterness and resentment from the innocent spouse.
2006-11-10 05:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by King of Torts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't . two wrongs don't make it right . yrs ago i had a friend and it tore our live's apart . my children were quite young i met someone , we hung out for ever , but it turned into a night mare , my spouse found out , my children got hurt badly from all the fighting , i almost lost everything . all because i thought of my stupidity, i realize it hurts awful bad . to this day my kid's have little respect for me . last year i learned my husband was talking to someone on his cell phone , meeting her her and there . the pain was awful , i do not trust him , maybe never will but . i truly believe . if someone cheats one you , is it really going to make it all go away . and you feel like more of a person because you did it .what would you accomplish ? maybe seek councling instead
2006-11-10 05:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by Edna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No My husband cheated and I've never been tempted to cheat back as that would just be silly. He does live with such guilt that he thinks I will and is always accusing me.. It's been 5 years and if I haven't by now I certainly won't but he just doesn't get it.. guilty conscience
2006-11-10 06:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by cino_bean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, that would be trying to get even... It would be fine if you see marriage as a battleground, but I think that if the marriage is to succeed one should try to see it as a union of two loving people instead of a battle. Hurting the other one "just to show him/her what it felt like" is not likely to achieve any good.
2006-11-10 05:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is the way to see Evil..... Cheating is Crime in Love, stay away, keep your conscience is clear and your mind will be fine and clear, you will have peace in your mind, anybody cheat you will go to the Hell
2006-11-10 05:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound like a healthy approach. Especially if you want to get your marriage back in the right direction.
2006-11-10 05:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by remsing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH....NO....if you want your marriage to work...forgive and forget and get on with your life together.
2006-11-10 05:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM SURE YOU KNOW THE ANWER TO THIS QUESTION ALREADY. THE QUESTION SHOULD BE...HOW WOULD YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF AFTER THE DEED WAS DONE?
2006-11-10 08:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋