2006-11-09 21:26:46 · 18 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah
2006-11-09 21:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree...Ofcourse guys will be guys but the bottom line i think is that when a person loves another person, they put that person's life to some degree greater then theirs. It's like when you really look at love between families, they would risk their life to save their dying family members. So in someway, you can't really cheat on someone you really love because you wouldn't want to do anything to cause them pain or harm. If you find the cheating process easily approachable then i would question whether you actually even love that person. If you don't, then maybe it's time to hit the highway.
2006-11-10 05:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by ylimele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you could cheat on someone you really love. People do stupid STUPID things in the heat of the moment, and than later live to regret it. A lot of people cheat for the attention...the affection...not to "get laid". None of it is okay...there is no way to justify cheating but i do believe you can love someone and still be incredibly stupid.
I love my husband with all my heart...and in our darkest moment...did consider cheating....I wanted SO desperately to feel loved and wanted....i understand certain things can make us desire someone /something else....even when we love our spouse.
I choose to stay faithful and told my husband the truth...that his treatmeant of me was so bad, i was feeling so unloved i was considering cheating....and we worked it out together.
Had he been a different person....if i hadn't been able to talk to him, i still wonder to this day...would I have cheated on him?? even despite the fact that i love him so much? Its easy to judge until you've walked in the persons shoes...but the fact will always remain there is no excuse....and guilt after the fact doesn't excuse the cheating either. So yes, i think you could love someone and still cheat....but it's no kind of love I'd want to be involved in!
2006-11-10 07:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, I would never cheat on someone who I really love.
2006-11-10 05:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by Diabla 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is Crime in Love, the way go to see Evil, anybody like cheating will go to the HELL, anybody really love each other should keep your conscience clean and pure to have peace in mind and happy
2006-11-10 05:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on ur training. If it is ur habit to cheat in life, u may cheat those whom u love also. If a person is not disposed to cheating he will not cheating any body whether he loves him or not.
2006-11-10 05:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably say, you wouldnt cheat on someone you really love AND respect.
2006-11-10 05:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Beachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, but I think some people can, especially men. You can really love someone but still do something incredibly stupid, certainly. If you don't feel really, REALLY guilty about it, then you don't really love your mate, though.
Sorry, guys, you're just biologically wired that way by evolution...
The stats will back me up on that,,,,,,,,
2006-11-10 05:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you were correct but life experience has shown me otherwise.
I hope you and your loved one never will but I'd bet my house that you will know at least three couples that really love each other but at least one of them 9one in each couple)has an affair
2006-11-10 05:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely - cause i love my husband enough to keep myself only to him! (I took my vows seriously) & I'd never want to hurt him that way! Plus I'd never allow another man to disrespect him that way either by using me! It wouldn't ever be worth it. My husband is everything to me so It would be senseless. I guarantee if cheating ever happens in my marriage it wouldn't be me doing it!
2006-11-10 14:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheat on somone you love I would say that you don't have much respect for them or yourself.
2006-11-10 05:39:21 · answer #11 · answered by Stand 4 somthing Please! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋