m gf is taking a ride everyday with a guy that likes her a lot , and she seems very enthousiatic at taking this ride...She told me about the rides, maybe because she wants to know if I'm gonna react or if I trust her ...I don't react about this because, I want to show her that I trust her, but shouldn't I ask her questions about how things is going with this guy she takes rides with everyday, or shouldn't I even talked about that ? what do you think ?
2006-11-09 21:30:36 · 12 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, she probably told u about it to see if u trust her, and she don't want to hide anything from you.... so trust her and leave it alone!
2006-11-09 21:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is some times that life becomes monotone. Most of us will react to this condition unconsciously. We always try to bring happiness to our life. When life is monotone, there is no happiness, so we react to that and try to make a change.
Now when it comes to relation, couple should make this change together. If one moves alone, the relation will break.
Your girl is happy with the ride. Cause this is a change for her. But still she loves you and she wants to be with you. This is a warning to you by her unconsciously to make a change.
So... The best way I can suggest you is to talk to your girl openly firs. Tell how you feel about what she is doing. ( Refer to craroline answer ). Don't forget to avoid fight. Hug her and kiss her after all the talks. (Don't make a long kiss....LOL) This is a good weapon in men's hand. Then you need to make some changes.
Go out with her more often. Joke, laugh and try to be happy around. Take her to parties, be in groups more than before.
He will be out of your life automatically.
Never forget that the base of love is happiness...
Wish you the best, bro.
2006-11-10 07:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by Rayalone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got stop this - fast. Yet you must do it with tact so that you don't seem possesive or immaturely jealous. Just ask to take the ride them sometimes and be very touchy feely with yo chic in the car.
2006-11-10 05:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be calling cheaters if I were you. She sounds very dodgy dude, Don't trust her she is doing you wrong. Dial up cheaters now, you will not regret it. I have called them and thank god I did. Now I am with another slut but hey its all good now because she is a bi sexual and she shares her gf's with me.
2006-11-10 05:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by MamasaidknockUout_1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is checking you what will be ur reaction but i think its better if u open up and speak to her plus tell her also that u trust her.i think she also want u to ask her questions? and asking question doesnt show that u dont trust her from my point of veiw it shows that u care for her and love her.
2006-11-10 05:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by daisy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dam man........If you get her mad them I bet she's gona say something like, " he treats me wrong and this guy is always there with me." Man you gota but a end to this ****. Man, now I'm piss to hear that. Something have got to stop. Tell ur gf that you don't feel comfortable and it makes you feel like you are not being her bf. Man, you have to do something man.
2006-11-10 05:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How insecure are you? Is she? Would she try to make you jealous? Does she bring it up a lot?
If she doesn't talk about him a lot and seems casual, I wouldn't worry.
Otherwise...kick her to the curb
2006-11-10 05:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't "test" her... communicate with her honestly and openly. Say "when you do this ___, it makes me feel like this ___." and see what she has to say, and respect her opinion. That doesn't mean you have to trust her blindly, trust your gut, but you still have to respect her individual decisions, as she should respect your feelings.
2006-11-10 05:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know, ask her. And if it starts to really bother you, just tell her. If she cares about you and your feelings, she should respect your wishes.
2006-11-10 05:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by .:miss:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you should just ask her like "are you testing me, or you are flirting with another guy?" BUT you have to ask politely, not so politely, but just enough to not invite a fight in your conversation...
2006-11-10 05:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by inuka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋