I am seeing a bloke, and have been for the past few months, but one minute he wants to know me the next minute he dont. I just dont get it. We can go days with out talking to each other. If it was just sex he was after, why does he call me sometimes to ask me to go round his and just cuddle, surely there must be some emotional tie there? I am infactuated with the bloke, (but he does not know this), but he continues to be hot and cold with me, and I always go running back to him.
Please give me some advice on what to do, should I walk away, or is there anything I can do to have something more with him than what seems to be just sex?
2006-11-09 21:47:58 · 7 answers · asked by jd_girl_06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This "bloke", as you keep calling him, sounds like a JERK! We all deserve better than that!
2006-11-09 21:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl i know how you feel!!! i been in this same situation for the past 2 years andf he still cant make his mind up(although there is no sex involved in my situation). I have chose to back away now if he wants me as much as he tells me he does he will come back to me. I think you should do the same step back a little and he will miss you for sure and when he does come back to you talk to him and find out if it is just all about the sex cos if it is you really need to stop...............at the end of the day if you love this man and all he wnts is sex you are the only one that will end up getting hurt.
2006-11-10 05:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by life_vamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be asking him this. If you think he's wasting your time then you should walk away. If you stay despite feeling this way it's not him playing you, but you playing yourself. Talk to this schmuck, if he's really worth it to you, before making all kind of generalizations.
2006-11-10 05:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because like a girl, he doesn't know what he wants.
2006-11-10 05:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Misterman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont nead the games stop playing b for you fall
2006-11-10 05:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
BECAUSE WE LIKE SPORT, TUFF.
2006-11-10 05:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by red beret 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
thats wat happen to me i dont quite know
2006-11-10 05:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by kavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋