Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

I quit drinking for 13 months and 27 days.I have been single for a long time.TO LONG!! I started back going to the bars and clubs and can't take someone home with me.I'm not perfect! Who is? I'm not a ugly man either.I can't take someone home with me.WHY?

2006-11-08 14:16:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is I'm with him to pay the bills or am I'm with him because I love him. I really don't know how I feel about him anymore because of the way that he treats me . Sometimes I put him out because I just can't stand to look and him because everytime that i see him my skin crawls.

2006-11-08 14:16:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are southern men more polite/gentlemanly than northern men? I've noticed that in the south, men hold doors for women and always pay for dinner, etc. when dating. I've dated northern guys, and they always go Dutch and never do those nice things like hold the door, tell my mother ma'am, etc. Am I the only one who's noticed this?

2006-11-08 14:14:48 · 12 answers · asked by mempto 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 14:14:44 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

What do you think?

2006-11-08 14:14:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please people no judgement because you wont know the whole story just from this little bit i write. okay I am married and i love my husband to death. But recently an old flame has come back into my life and i have these super strong feelings for him, luckily i have self control and strong biblical belief so i have not made any bad choices with the situation. But i cant get him out of my head. My husband and i have a wonderful marriage but i feel like something is missing. And now this guy is starting to become shady because i cant figure out what to do. I am so confused and i feel like this wrong!

2006-11-08 14:12:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yeah basically u r on the phone with ur gf and the new housemate walks in and says hello and u say hello back and ur gf goes "what? who r u talking to?" then "yeah its just the new housemate" and she goes "is she pretty?" what is the right answer?? "no she's horrendous"?? "yes but has fat ankles", what is the right answer for a girl? I know there's probably no right answer to that, something like when they ask "do I look fat?"

2006-11-08 14:12:10 · 18 answers · asked by FunGr 1 in Singles & Dating

I am sending a hello note to a guy I used to be friends with in high school. He and I have lost touch since then, but recently he added me to his myspace, and we haven't sent messages yet, but of course we remember each other since we were such good friends in senior year. Well, I wanted to be first to send a little note hello, but I am not sure what to say or how to word it where it wont just say hey what are you up to now...any suggestions?

2006-11-08 14:11:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've always read the romantic novels, and when the girl gets the guy and they share this one First Kiss, so romantic and beautiful. So 4 me the First Kiss is a treasure. I've been waiting 4 it. But as it's so special I don't want 2 have it with just anybody, of course!. But I get nervous sometimes when I see my crush I want 2 kiss him, but I don't want 2 make a move cuz he's my best friend. And I've been thinking that, maybe he likes me, and instead of just saying 2 him I should just grab him and kiss him like in the movies. Should I or not?

2006-11-08 14:10:51 · 38 answers · asked by Golden 2 in Singles & Dating

im confused he is always bothering my closest friends [saying hi to them, hitting them playfully] but i thought we had something going on, i mean we flirt but we both seem nervous when we do it. What do you think?

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you really think hes a playa?....i was thinking maybe he was just trying to get close to me? i dont know :(

2006-11-08 14:10:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 14:10:46 · 2 answers · asked by CUPCAkkE 1 in Friends

My cousin and I have been talkin on AOL often and everytime she leaves or i leave she says love you.. should i be saying love you back?

2006-11-08 14:10:41 · 3 answers · asked by Johnny D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can you name some simple gifts

2006-11-08 14:09:52 · 7 answers · asked by LOVELY LADY 3 in Singles & Dating

I used to like a man who I think liked me too. I gave him my number and address so that he can contact me, cause I would be going away for a long time I told him. He did not contact me, but recently when I saw him again, I asked him why he did not contact me? he told me how busy his life and his job is and that he has no personal time for himself to enjoy. He also said he did not want to cause trouble to me. (I assured him he was no trouble for me or my family). Now every time we meet he tries to do all kinds of favours to me (I cannot mention all those here, for it will make it unnecessarily long). I even asked him why he cut his hair so crooked once when he cut it like that. The next day he changed to his previous looks and felt relaxed in front of me. Does a man do these normally? Can I expect he cares for me more than usual? because I cannot stop thinking about him and feeling there is something very strong between us that has developed and yet we cannot do anything about it.

2006-11-08 14:09:46 · 12 answers · asked by S&D 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I know it is scary and this is for debate.If you start sex and you kiss and forplay and he is inside you and you don't like it. Then you say no
you changed your mind because it hurts
Where is the point of no return?

2006-11-08 14:09:22 · 20 answers · asked by toietmoi 6 in Singles & Dating

Im 25 and im gonna be single for the holidays this is my first year being single im scared and heart broken will i ever find a guy eventually i can call my husband and be for once happy? holiday blues i guess how many of you are in da same boat as me weather ur divorce or just broken up

2006-11-08 14:08:47 · 21 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Are there any guys out there looking for more than just a cheap *****?

2006-11-08 14:08:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 14:08:35 · 13 answers · asked by I Love My BF forever 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 14:07:48 · 10 answers · asked by some1 1 in Singles & Dating

Help! I don't know what to do, because first of all, i invited five people over my house. the last person i invited said yes, so all of them are coming over. However, I thought I told my mom that I said FIVE instead of FOUR, so she thinks i'm inviting only four. But I can't just tell the fifth person an excuse because than she's going to tell the others that it's canceled, and than the other ones will say it's not canceled, and that will hurt her feelings! I can't cancel it either, because i have it all set up... what do i do!?

2006-11-08 14:07:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

days away from turning the big 30!!! I was wondering if a month long relationship was too soon to buy a piece of jewelery for her?

2006-11-08 14:07:06 · 16 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been saying that he wants a baby with me. Begging practically. Now that I am pregnant, he acts as if he wants nothing to do with the baby. He doesn't even care if I go and take my baby. Why?

2006-11-08 14:06:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband was telling me that my brother in law left his 10 month old son downstairs at his parents place while he was on a confrence call with work. He had went to his parent to see if they could watch him but they couldn't so he ended up calling his mother in law and asked her to get off work early to come and get him. My brother in law makes plenty of money but was trying to save a couple bucks on daycare. He rather spend $5,000 on a new lawnmower then $2 a hour on daycare. Well my mother in law told him she couldn't get off early but would come straght to his parents house (which is 25 miles away). When she got there my nephew was down stair crying. From what it sounds like his face was beat red and looked like he had been crying for a long time. I was not happy when my husband told me but from what he is saying there aren't even going to tell my sister in law about it, my nephews mom. Do I tell her or just stay out of the mess? He could have coaked on something and then what

2006-11-08 14:06:04 · 11 answers · asked by HPEmomofone 3 in Family

2006-11-08 14:05:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was very good to him never cheated on him and just did the best to make his life easier. We recently had a son that he adores but i hate him he's been lying and unforunately for him i always find out all the time he recently started dating someone and i'm livid as he lied he wasn't and was even still sleeping with me even though we cooled off for a bit. It pisses me off that i have to speak to him for our kids sake. I want to revenge. I'm not a violent person so revenge must be harmless but sweet. Any ideas?

2006-11-08 14:05:43 · 23 answers · asked by Miss J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-08 14:05:00 · 3 answers · asked by luvnallmen 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 14:04:34 · 7 answers · asked by Oliviaxx 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfreind broke up with me useing the excuse he couldnt love me the way i need and deserve to be loved thanks all of you... from my heart each answer is wonderful....

2006-11-08 14:04:27 · 3 answers · asked by your name here 3 in Singles & Dating

My Story:
I m 40+ years...my fiancee is 40+years..We met, we clicked, we/he wants to marry by the end of the year..this i agreed to on MODAY nite....
My friend said WAIT! just meet this OTHER guy, I think you would b perfect match! I met him this Tuesday & he IS perfect for me. BUT he is 50+ years old. With the most amazing green eyes.
I could be happy with both!! I will decide who to choose, but HOW do i let down the man i do NOT choose??
I can't sleep at night for worrying...I can't think either...both have taken me around as their new love...I don't want to embarress them. BOTH have been burned by past loves...and now I'M doing what I promised NOT to do!!
I guess to "bottom line" this . One is rich & one is poor. I could love them both but I m leaning towards the richer one...I m ashamed of this feeling. I so regret meeting the second guy, my heart is totally torn!! He is awesome & says that I m his missing half. Help me :(

2006-11-08 14:04:01 · 7 answers · asked by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I am the most STUPID/BORING girlfriend in the freakin history or the freakin world!!!!!
I am in 7th grade. I am with my 2nd boyfriend. He is such a sweetheart (he is 14) and VERY polite......but SO shy!!! I am not usually shy, but I am around him. We hug, and hold hands, and it's sometimes awkward. He just called me to actually "talk" for the 1st time in our almost 3 week realtionship. (pathetic, but, hey)
I MADE SUCH A FREAKIN IDIOT OF MYSELF!!!
We had SO many awkward moments, cuz neither of us could think of anything to say! After small-talking for about 15 minuets, he finally used the "my mom is calling me" excuse!!!
QUESTION: Should I find some things to talk about, and call him back??! I HATE it ending like this, and me feeling like an idiot, when i might be able to do something about it.
Please help me, and if you are going to tell me I am "too young!" then don't bother answering.....

2006-11-08 14:03:13 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating