I've always read the romantic novels, and when the girl gets the guy and they share this one First Kiss, so romantic and beautiful. So 4 me the First Kiss is a treasure. I've been waiting 4 it. But as it's so special I don't want 2 have it with just anybody, of course!. But I get nervous sometimes when I see my crush I want 2 kiss him, but I don't want 2 make a move cuz he's my best friend. And I've been thinking that, maybe he likes me, and instead of just saying 2 him I should just grab him and kiss him like in the movies. Should I or not?
2006-11-08 14:10:51 · 38 answers · asked by Golden 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT DO THAT!!! If you think he likes you then give it time and if he does then he will ask you out. I was 15 when i got my first kiss and it was a week after my ex-girlfriend and i started going out. Trust me, when it comes, you will know the right time. If he doesnt ask you out eventually, either he doesnt like you or is nervous like ur nervous with him. Try to flirt with him more.
2006-11-08 14:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Tommy T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 14, you should not be kissed! Ok, that is the mom in me. Actually though, don't you feel like you are rushing it a little? Keep on with the romance novels if you like them but remember, the story is a fantasy. They very rarely happen that way in real life. No boy at the age of 14 wants a girl to come up and kiss them the way they dream about in a romance novel!!! Or at all really. You will scare him silly! Be patient and your first kiss will come when the time is right. In the meantime, when you start to thinking about kissing too much, then turn on some music and dance or ride your bike or roller blade or call a girlfriend and do something. Enjoy the life you are living now. The kiss will come. Good Luck. :)
2006-11-08 14:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im 19 and ive never been kissed, and that doesnt seem to be a problem to me, youve been reading too many romantic novels, novels are novels you know, and just because you like this guy and you sometimes feel the urge to kiss him it doesnt mean you should do it
dont you know that a kiss is even more important than sex at 14 you dont want to be experimenting on that, and if you do do it when youre mature, and not that romantically inclined with romantic novels, wait and wait for the right man, that guy might seem like the perfect choice right now, but at 14 and wanting to be kissed already
whew! you have better things to think about
plus stop reading those romantic novels and start reading about real books that can teach you reality, avoid living in fantasy world
2006-11-08 14:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question. I'm a 14 year old girl too and I know sometimes I just want to do that to the boy I like. I don't really know what to tell you in your case though. I would probably bring up the fact that you like him in a conversation first. Then go for the kiss if you think he likes you too.
2006-11-08 14:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be in a RELATIONSHIP for at least a couple of weeks b4 u kiss. I am 12, and have never been kissed, but all my friends have. My boyfriend is 14, and I am his 1st girlfriend!! He has bever kissed anyone either!
I know you probobly don't think you should listen to anyone younger than you, but belive me when I say, the right time will come. It may be next week, or when your 16! Just let time take it's course!
Good Luck!! :-)
2006-11-08 14:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing about romance novels is that everything always fits into place. Life is a totally different story. If you think that he is the one you want to share your first kiss with, I'd say go ahead, you only live once. If you are really stressing over the outcome, maybe you should talk to him.
2006-11-08 14:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG big deal, the first kiss is worth the wait. slow down calm those raging hormones girl! the world right now sayz everyone has to date and get with other kids younger and younger every year, you can stop the trend! I don't date, have never been kissed etc. and i don't plan to until 16!
2006-11-08 14:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by redheads have more fun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me guess this straight. You're looking for advice on the internet in addition to replaying what you read in romance novels and what you see in movies?
Try living your own life with your own ideas. Life is much more rewarding.
2006-11-08 14:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop reading and watching that crap. life is not a movie. YOUR ONLY 14! enjoy being a kid.....you only get one chance. that kiss will come when it's time,don't force it or even wait for it....you got the rest of your life for that.
2006-11-08 14:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by luciousbbwkitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think its right...do it. The more you think and stress about it, the less itll be. Just do it if it seems right and the moments right. Just be careful to not make yourself look like a whore..should be safe with the first kiss though, unless your one heck of an adventurous one.. ; )
2006-11-08 14:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋