2006-11-08 14:08:35 · 13 answers · asked by I Love My BF forever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you like him and see if he likes you. If he does then just explain to him that you want to pursue something with him but only if he will start treating your friends better.
2006-11-08 14:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does it not bother you that he's mean to your best friend? He's mean, period. And this is a brand new relationship for you? It seems to me he has no respect for what DOES have meaning to you. In other words, if he can find fault with your best friend, what's next? Your family members? He's pushing your buttons to see maybe if you'll choose him over your friend. Don't let him see that you'd even consider it! Not for one second! Guys like that will come and go, (the quicker, the better for you). He may be a little overly possessive too. Whatever you do DON'T take THAT as a compliment! It's not!
2006-11-08 22:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by MareinAira 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok , I don't know why he is mean to your friends . But ditch him. I mean he should be nice to them , it doesn't mean he has to love them. If he demands you don't see them also ditch him. He obviously doesn't love you enough because he is not respectful of who you hang with.
My experience - my exhusband met my friends and was not nice to them. However, I married him. We later divorced. But during the time I was married to him I hardly saw my friends. It was real awkward.
Chances are your friends have known you longer than your boyfriend. So who brings more happiness and positivity in your life him or your friends?
There are plenty of guys out there who will be nice and respectful of their girlfriend's friends. Find a better quality guy.
2006-11-08 22:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember you can always have somebody to love you but not always friends that would take care of you
if the guy you want is mean to your friends , then sooner or later he would also feel that way about you, who you are is reflected among your friends,
he should love your friends, and any man who is mean dont deserve to be loved
remember that friends are more important in life, that guy he wont be there for you all the time, your friends they will be there for you until the end, dont let this guy destroy your relationship with your friends, choose wisely ,,choose your friends
2006-11-08 22:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep away from him, or keep him as just a friend. In my experience, if they're mean to your friends, they are being nice to you to hook you into a relationship. And it is not long before they are mean to you as well.
Find a guy that likes not only you, but your friends as well.
2006-11-08 22:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by mochikogirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ditch the guy! If hes mean to your friends, he could be trying to get them away from you, its a controlling thing, alienate you from everyone. Maybe not, but he still isnt worth the headache. If he cant be civil, not worth your time and trouble. Better elsewhere!
2006-11-08 22:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by nassbabe2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
question how your friends are.. they may do certain things that are done behind your back and he knows about it. He doesn't want to tell you cause he doesn't want to look like the bad person. My friends tried to sleep with my bf. and told me he was just horrible. Well of course he was mean to them... so they played a game.
2006-11-08 22:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by Franchesca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that they are your friends and they come first. If he really likes you, he wouldn't treat your friends that way. If he doesn't like you, you should still put your friends ahead of a boy. You shouldnt lose a friend over a crush/boy...
2006-11-08 22:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by Pretty Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard question and basically, it comes down to this: do you put yourself and your wants before your friendships or vice versa. Perhaps, this situation could result smoothly, but there really isn't enough information about your problem.
2006-11-08 22:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by kittykatmeow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"A person who is nice to you, but rude to the waiter, is not a nice person."
That's a 'Fact of Life'. Focus your attentions on someone more worthy of receiving them.
2006-11-08 22:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋