Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

i hate my father...i can't remember one memory with him...he doesn't understand..never called..he never paid child support...he pretended to love me at one time then dropped me back into the world on the day i was born....i've lived a great life without him...but if he does come around should i forgive him?

2006-11-08 14:30:51 · 19 answers · asked by james f 1 in Family

I have this problem, you see I am a good person, a nice girl, pretty, a psychologist, acoording to many of my friends I´m a catch. But that said I just can´t have a serious relationship with a man, and I don´t give it up easy. What always happens is that I meet a guy it all goes starting well but the things freeze up and we don´t make it to the next level, NEVER, then they start dating other girls who are anything like me, not that I´m rude or hurt but it´s true they´re either mean or sluths. So I´m desperate and sad because I just can´t make it work, everyone keeps telling me to wait that the right guy is out there but I´m tired of waiting It´s been too long and It´s getting harder and every day I get more conviced that it must be me the one that´s doing something wrong. So what can I do?

2006-11-08 14:30:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 14:30:04 · 15 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4 in Singles & Dating

if anyone knows how i can get on 2 an account(i lost the password and the secret answer) please tell me..or just write sumthin stupid down..its an easy 2 points....and if anyone knows how to...use detail and tell me step by step how 2 do it....thanx!!!!!! i really need to get back on my other account ...thanx!!!! again!!!!:D

2006-11-08 14:29:20 · 11 answers · asked by Counting the Days. 3 in Friends

We dated for about a year, two years ago. We haven't seen each other since but have been talking again recently. We live far away from each other. He broke my heart but I still have feelings for him. Is this a bad idea?

2006-11-08 14:29:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my husband, & we have a good life overall; but we've had too many conflicts over the years & so much emotional hurt. I chose a situation that I thought would be good, but we really didn't know one another well. We thought that our love was enough. We didn't decide to wed on thought, but on feeling. That wasn't a smart move. We created a lot of hurt for each other. I think that most marriages are decided on that way, & many of them go bad. I'm curious what other people think.

2006-11-08 14:28:57 · 14 answers · asked by Rae 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know a girl but we are only friend and we usually meet what do u think is it possible to get her

2006-11-08 14:28:08 · 6 answers · asked by jass1610 1 in Singles & Dating

is this all fun and games? what is real on here? in all the flirting and perversion....is is all play? or is it more?

2006-11-08 14:27:43 · 18 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i have been dating this guy ,Jason(he's 16), for 11 monthes...and all he ever does is gives me hugs...how do i tell him that i wanna hold hands and kiss every once in a while...i don't know how..Any advice? please respond...(i'm 14 and please do not say i'm too young)

2006-11-08 14:27:39 · 8 answers · asked by suesieq2003 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 14:27:35 · 9 answers · asked by BayBay 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not though, and that's the truth of the matter. I am unfortunately in a different living space than I was before, and all these new people think just because I stay at home and hardly go out, that I'm a recluse. But it all is because
1) I hate my roommates, so I don't hang out with them or go out with them
2) My real friends have their own places and I can't meet with them as regularly as before, although I do meet up with them on the weekends.
3) I am busy and thus, I don't have time to be too social.

But these idiots look at me weirdly and judge me without even knowing who I am, or who I was before I met them.

So am I a recluse?

2006-11-08 14:27:11 · 4 answers · asked by bansri47 4 in Friends

Ok, my bf and I have been going out like i dont know...3 weeks? and yeah, we hug and hold hands and i kiss him/or he kisses me on the cheek afterschool but I feel very uncomfortable if people are there (which they usually are ) I'm not a fan of the PDA...annddd...i know he wants to kiss, but I would really appreciate it if it didn't have to happen when there's people around. school is the place when we could see eachother cuz i doubt my parents want me to have a bf...im 15 lol
ummm
yeah, it's not my FIRST kiss...but it is with him. and like....i get frustrated at myself because i feel like he's not asking for much, yet im not giving that much to him. get it?
i think i am making it a big deal. and its not about being comfortable with him because even though we recently started going out, he's been my best friend for a year before that..so yeah
any suggestions?? =(

2006-11-08 14:26:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 14:25:47 · 10 answers · asked by stephiepoohbearcats 2 in Family

2006-11-08 14:25:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

who would you marry???

2006-11-08 14:24:31 · 10 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've Been dating this guy for the past year now and he still hasn't commited to me. I know he was hurt badly in the past so thats why I gave him time to come around. Now, a year later and we are still in the same place we were in when we started.I can tell sometimes that he really likes me, then other times I don't hear from him in a week. I really like him. Tell me what to do. Should I leave or should I stay? Will he come around?

2006-11-08 14:23:58 · 21 answers · asked by Tasha 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok it has to do with women and their husbands. I'm not married but it does concern me if I do get married.

Anyway what if the woman has a very low sex drive, inability to physically lust or have sexual feelings. Would it be alright to please her husband by sleeping with him and pleasing him because it says in the bible to respect him and encourage him, uplift him(With God's help of course).

Or would it be lying if you sleep with your husband but don't feel anything sexually? I know faking or***ms is lying.

What do you suggest?? or think or believe

2006-11-08 14:23:34 · 15 answers · asked by Snorty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If your gurlfriend wore purple (pretty color) nailpolish would it freak you out??

2006-11-08 14:23:27 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

You are probably thinking of "Father knows best" when in fact the truth is parents know best especially Moms.

2006-11-08 14:22:49 · 7 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Family

Has anyone been in a relationship with someone going through a divorce?
When my boyfriend and I started going out he was going through a divorce and she was still living with him. They werent psysical or anything but ever since I cant help but wonder about their relationship. He doesnt talk about it hardly at all because he doesnt like too. I occasionally find things of hers around the house as I live here now and it makes me feel a bit wierd. Obviously Im not going to try and talk to her but Im wondering how can I get closure in my mind about it? Anyone ever had this? They were tgether for about four years and we have been together about two. I guess I feel inferior for some reason. Stupid? Anyway, Id be interested for someone to tell me how they may have dealt with this or would deal with this. Obviously leaving isnt what Im going to do. Thanks!

2006-11-08 14:22:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents are so unfair. My brother will start being annoying so i'll tell him to shut up. He will get mad and start kicking and punching me. I won't fight back because I am older than him and know that I will get in trouble if I kick his ***. So i'll just be standin there while he is furiously attacking me when my parents come in. They just suppose that since he is so mad I must have done something bad to him. I end up being grounded and he ends up getting away with nothing. What they do re-enforces his behaviour of attacking me and really pissed me off. The worst thing about this is that it has happened many many times Should I just really fight back and teach my brother a lesson so that he knows not to pick fights with bigger people?

2006-11-08 14:22:31 · 19 answers · asked by icantfindaname50 2 in Family

hay i really like this girl and i was going to ask her on a date this sat but i dont kno how to ask her or wat to do on the date plz tell me some thing

2006-11-08 14:21:57 · 2 answers · asked by rhyme_gold_free 1 in Singles & Dating

fyi i am a hs freshmen

ok so i think this guy named nick is cute
i dont know him too well
but i know is name and he knows mine.

i constantly see him looking at me.

what should i do tomorrow?
go up and talk to him?
i dont want to sound annoying.
and what do i say??

help please. thankss

2006-11-08 14:20:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In most cases, step families are a bad (or negetive) situation. I wed a guy with a young daugher, & she & I loved one another. Had I known then what I know how, I would not have done it or even dated him knowing that he had a child. We had TOO many ugly moments. I love my husband very much, & I love my "daughter", but there was way too much conflict due to the circumstance. I would like to know about some happy step families.

2006-11-08 14:19:25 · 6 answers · asked by Rae 2 in Family

Do you have a girl friend that you consider "just one of the guys," and if so what is it about her that puts her in that category for you.

2006-11-08 14:19:22 · 6 answers · asked by Starwyn 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend does not like me going out at night with my friends and he won't stop ringing my phone to find out how i am every 4hrs! I am curvy, slim, 5.5 in height, milk choco complexion, black short hair with red tips, dark grey eyes etc? I tell him i love him all the time and i see him often and it seems like its not enough. What should i do?

2006-11-08 14:19:17 · 15 answers · asked by vic 1 in Singles & Dating

So apparently, I'm in sixth grade and I have a boyfriend.
I only said yes to him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings and everybody told me to say yes to him, plus, I liked him at that time. But now, my feelings have changed for him and I regret for what I have said to him. I wanna break up with him now but the problem is, he's been liking me since 5th grade, and I don't want to hurt his feelings. Can anybody please help me?

2006-11-08 14:18:32 · 12 answers · asked by uclagirl128 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i had a bench warrent on me my neice got mad at me and turned me in it was for driving on suspended which i tried to take care of through court ihad 500 cash bond which i did not have so i was trying to save it up but she turned me in before i had it saved

2006-11-08 14:18:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex dumped me a month ago. She is going through therapy to deal with her fathers death 4 months ago and her low self esteem. When she broke up wiht me she asked me not to hate her and said she was very sorry, but she needed to sort her life out first. She said she really hoped we could still be friends. It was really hard for me to say, but I told her that I cared about her too much and would need some time to get over her. I did not want to do anything to only complicate both of our lives. I felt bad saying no to friends, but I honestly think it was the best thing for the both of us. So now some time has passed. I emailed her and apol;ogized for any discomfort I may have caused in her life. I also told her that I hope we can still keep in touch every now and then. Basically I want her to know that I still care about her and if she wants to talk I am here, as ONLY a friend. I feel bad cause I don't want her to think I do not care. Is this okay in keeping our distances...

2006-11-08 14:17:59 · 10 answers · asked by Clrcut27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the guy that i like never told his ex about me so i grew tired of her not knowing and told her myself !was i wrong to do that now he wont talk to me ! his ex still called him while we were together oh i went on a date with him on his birthday and his ex was calling instead of telling her that he was out with his girl he told her he was out with some friend was i wrong to let her know ?

2006-11-08 14:16:29 · 16 answers · asked by judixsa050202 1 in Singles & Dating