how do you know when to divorce youre family?

Question

i had a bench warrent on me my neice got mad at me and turned me in it was for driving on suspended which i tried to take care of through court ihad 500 cash bond which i did not have so i was trying to save it up but she turned me in before i had it saved

Answer 1

Good question. I "divorced" members of my family when they crossed the line with my children. I haven't talked to my sister in 4 years. And I don't miss her a bit.

You need to decide what your limit is. My limit was a family member harming my child.

Answer 2

I believe that when your life becomes unhappy because of some people in your family or not, there comes a time when enough is enough and you have to cut them off to preserve your sanity and happiness. Yes I think there are valid reasons and no one can tell you when you you need to do this. Only you can decide, so if this is what you need to do, do it regardless of what others say here, or in your personal life. It will be difficult, but walking away may alleviate some problems. I have done it.

Answer 3

Hi
I wonder what provoked your niece to do that?
How did she know about the warrant? How come you did not go to court to avoid the warrant?

Answer 4

Sounds like you need to break off relations with your niece
at the very least...

Answer 5

ok not a reason to devorce your family. I maybe not talk to her for a while but someday you will want or need your family. Maybe you could grow up and forgiver her??

Answer 6

Not enough info for an appropriate answer.

Answer 7

Now thats cold. I would definatly let her know she is not on you Christmas list.

Answer 8

When is when you've had enough... but remember getting them out is easy... when you might want them back they won't want you. Good luck.